It hurts that my ex and I don't talk anymore. I do really wanna talk to him again, I miss him!

[Peaches306]

OK its been 3 months since my boyfriend and I broke up and I'm still really hurt. I missed him so much, and the thing is he wanted to be my friend and I was OK with that but I made a mistake that scared him off completely, and I didn't mean it I was just in so much pain at that time. I threatened him that id kill myself and make him feel guilty for hurting me and breaking my heart, and after he read the message it scared him off he told the school counselor and know I seek depression treatment, the thing is I didn't mean to say that I was emotionally distressed at that time I had to let out my anger, and after that we never talked since, its been 3 weeks since the incident passed and he still hasn't talking to me and he doesn't want to from what I heard, he looks and after he gives me a look he just looks down at his feet, and I'm really sorry for what I said to him, I was just so hurt and I felt like I wanted to end my life due to pain, and I just want him to talk to me again, I want to build a friendship with him again, but the thing is were not talking, I hope you guys understand that I am sorry, and I just want to talk to him again as time flies. Should I approach him myself? and if so without forcing or pushing him how can I say I'm sorry? and how can I tell him that it hurts when we don't talk? instead of saying: "look I'm sorry, can we please just get along, it really hurts me so much when we don't talk, I really could use a friend,and it be so nice if we can be friends again" instead of saying that (because I think it sounds too pushy and it might scare him away) what words appropriate words can I use to say I'm sorry, to say how much it hurts that we don't talk, and to ask for a friendship again? what words can I use so I don't scare him away? please help...i really am sorry and I didn't mean it like I said I was in emotional pain..so what are the best words? thanks in advanced.

[xperience]

the ball is in his court now. what you said has totally affected him. and he will probably never come back. to be honest. but seriously if you want him to come back don't say anything at all. give him space. and he will come back to you when he is ready. right now he is just overwhelmed with the breakup itself and what you said. you are a pretty girl please don't hurt yourself over a guy. your young as well. just say busy. focus on yourself and improve.

whether he comes back or not it doesn't matter. in time you will find someone. its just the after effects of a breakup which is very common. especially in girls who are very emotional and have a hard time letting go

time heals everything. its what you do that doesn't help it heal. if you feel me?

need to be level 3+ to hit up anyone on GAG. if you need someone to talk to feel free to hit me up anytime. don't do anything to hurt yourself ok>?

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