OK its been 3 months since my boyfriend and I broke up and I'm still really hurt. I missed him so much, and the thing is he wanted to be my friend and I was OK with that but I made a mistake that scared him off completely, and I didn't mean it I was just in so much pain at that time. I threatened him that id kill myself and make him feel guilty for hurting me and breaking my heart, and after he read the message it scared him off he told the school counselor and know I seek depression treatment, the thing is I didn't mean to say that I was emotionally distressed at that time I had to let out my anger, and after that we never talked since, its been 3 weeks since the incident passed and he still hasn't talking to me and he doesn't want to from what I heard, he looks and after he gives me a look he just looks down at his feet, and I'm really sorry for what I said to him, I was just so hurt and I felt like I wanted to end my life due to pain, and I just want him to talk to me again, I want to build a friendship with him again, but the thing is were not talking, I hope you guys understand that I am sorry, and I just want to talk to him again as time flies. Should I approach him myself? and if so without forcing or pushing him how can I say I'm sorry? and how can I tell him that it hurts when we don't talk? instead of saying: "look I'm sorry, can we please just get along, it really hurts me so much when we don't talk, I really could use a friend,and it be so nice if we can be friends again" instead of saying that (because I think it sounds too pushy and it might scare him away) what words appropriate words can I use to say I'm sorry, to say how much it hurts that we don't talk, and to ask for a friendship again? what words can I use so I don't scare him away? please help...i really am sorry and I didn't mean it like I said I was in emotional pain..so what are the best words? thanks in advanced.
It hurts that my ex and I don't talk anymore. I do really wanna talk to him again, I miss him!
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