I know my family and ex-husband won't take it well as the kids are involved. I'm not looking to move overseas anytime soon , but it's something in the future I want to do. I know my ex-husband will flip... I have a suitor in mind , but we're not exclusive yet.
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Ex-husband thought I'll never do it.. date again since our divorce..
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focus on your kids... not dating internationally.
Don't tell me what to do - I've been single over 11 years
My kids are old enough where I can date
says don't tell me what to do but asks how do i tell my ex husband...
This question applied to folks who are married and divorced who have kids and trying to date
If you have no experiences there how would you relate and the whole purpose of me posting this question is because my ex husband clearly uses the kids as a crutch
That's a difficult one to comment on without any experience in that regard. What's happening to the sweet kiddos?
Wdym what happened to the kids- there with me.. he will flip once he finds out I met someone overseas and down the road I may go back overseas
Oh dobyou were from there before, sorrybi know no background here.
I've lived overseas why does that matter? The issue my ex husband will use the kids as a crutch 🩼 because he doesn't want me happy
I understand and wish you all the best.
Thanks
HK! DON'T worry about what they THINK!
My ex uses the kids as a crutch
How many & how old are your kids?
Soon to be 11 - 7 8
Second to oldest will be 9 in January
Pardone? You have 11 kids?
No silly 😜 I said my oldest is soon to be 11 second to oldest 9 and youngest made 7
Okay. Are you working yoo?
Too**
I'm self employed I own a business
Do you manage your boys on your own? Or do you have help?
I co parent and I have 2 girls 1 boy my ex husband helps.. moving forward I'm the domicilcary parent
I've been raising the kids 80% of the time11 years - I really don't need my ex since he works a lot
His time is for his job
I homeschool the kids , working on a certification, and run a business. . about to resume my education next year as a registered herbalist