Ok, so I made a fake KIK account in order to talk to my ex... i pretended i was another girl to find out how he's doing. The good thing is, he is okay and he is perfectly fine. As a fake me, I asked him if we could be friends. he said yes, but only as a friend and not more than that because he is not interested in a relationship more than that. he also told me that he used to have a girlfriend and they broke up just recently and he said that he still has feelings for her but he'd rather not talk about it. to be honest I am very relieved because he is not flirting with other girls and he still loves me. But is this a good thing? i know he loves me but I am not sure if he wants to get back together with me. He lives in another country, should I go there and see him? Maybe surprise him? i really want to, and my heart tells me to go for it.
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An Ex is called an ex for a reason.
You both were set free the day you broke up so it's not your business now what he's doing with his personal life and so not is his too.
Sorry for being blunt but that;s how relationships works.
Instead you can use that time to improve yourself and get a new guy.
Hope you get my point :)1