I emotionally cheated on my boyfriend can I keep him?

[Anonymous]

im not going to tell him i emotionally cheated lol. do I have to break up with him. i fucked up I know already

[JustinTheGreat]

I think if you really loved your boyfriend, you wouldn’t be having feelings for anyone else.
I mean at least you didn’t physically cheat so if you think you’re over your feelings for the other person, you don’t necessarily have to tell him.

But I think the fact that you’re thinking about other people is a red flag that your man might not be the one.

[Asker]

we have a togh relationship long distance and can't visit

[Asker]

yeah ur right about the thinking about other people. but he treats me right. all other people I've talked to just give me heartbreak. : ( feel like I dont deserve him and his loyalty

[Anonymous]

Yes as long as you didn't screw someone else

[Asker]

yeah bc they didn't give me a chance. i would've broken up before I screwed w someone else

[roseloyaa]

You dont have to but I wouldn't tell him you cheated if you do breakup with him

[mommymommymommy]

The right thing to do would be to tell him, and to break up with him, if he doesn't do it first

Beggers can't be choosers

[Asker]

he wouldt break up w me loves me too much that's the sad thing :( I'm fucked up

[mommymommymommy]

Then yeah, you need to tell him you cheated, and break it off

by the way, there's a special place in hell for you

[Asker]

I didn't cheat cheat though. Just fell in love with someone else We are long distance been for 3 years. He doesn't call me or visit me. I come to him like once evrry couple months. Im lonely as fuck. Just our situation sucks. doesn't justify me though

[Sparkie460]

Flirting is not cheating

[Asker]

How about sending sus pics

[Asker]

I did that too. Flirting i mean like sex flirting

[Sparkie460]

Did you actually have intercourse with the other guy

[Asker]

No just nudes

[MementoMori777]

Wdym?

[Asker]

can i not tell him and stay w him

[MementoMori777]

I'm asking how did you emotionally cheat on him?

[Asker]

flirted w multiple guys

[Asker]

I've done b4. and he forgave me :( I'm fucked up

[Asker]

i dont deserve him and his loyalty but Imma be real I'm desperate every one just hurts me

[Asker]

talked to them to not just flirt

[MementoMori777]

Why are you with someone you aren't happy with? You wouldn't be flirting with others if you were happy with the guy you have now, not only did you cheat emotionally on him before, but you did it again and on top of that you want to hide it from him, be honest and if it goes south then take the breakup, at that point you can flirt with whoever you please

[Asker]

We are long distance been for 3 years. He doesn't call me or visit me. I come to him like once evrry couple months. Im lonely as fuck. Just our situation sucks. doesn't justify me though. I love and care for him. he's s good guy. Jm happy with him but prob is i dont see him

[MementoMori777]

Then y'all should speak and come up with a solution because I don't know how you expect a problem to get fixed if you don't communicate with him and tell him how you feel.

[Asker]

He knows but still can't come :(

[MementoMori777]

Then I don't know what to tell you