Why are women so fake?

[Anonymous]

Like my ex girlfriend just broke up with me due to being tired of my autism and things about my autism and mental health which is bad because we are 2 years in and I let her know 2 weeks into the relationship. But anyways it has gone way down hill after the breakup we still have to live together for 3 more months but she has started calling me names like stupid

[justcuri0usaboutlife]

First of all, this woman sounds like a jerk, a huge one. It's unfortunate that you had to go through this and I am sorry to hear it.

I'm going to say the typical thing, that people say when their entire gender is misrepresented by a select few. Not all women are fake.

Now, there are several reasons a person, either male or female can be fake.

- They have a sheep/herd mentality. They want to conform and/or fit in with the popular viewpoint/way of acting/speaking

- Trapped in a transaction mindset, i. e, you scratch my back, I scratch yours. They are always thinking about what they can get out of an interaction

- Trying to be someone they are not and living up to a fake image. You can only be you, and you are the best at being yourself, not at being someone else. You can surely learn from someone else, and copy certain things you like, but end of the day, you are you. We are all unique in many ways, so it's best to just be yourself.

- Fear of offending someone. Unfortunately, this is it's own beast, because you can never truly know how someone thinks until it's too late. Much like what happened in your situation probably.

I'm sure you know this, but I will state that what happened to you is really more about the girl and her own immaturity than it is about you. She should have been more upfront and put more thought into things before pursuing a relationship.

[Asker]

I thought she was a different person

[Asker]

She’s also abusive twice in this relationship she has slapped me in the back of my head the first time was less the. 3 weeks in

[Anonymous]

Life is short, and some people are just too much work.

[Asker]

I’m work but she was slapping me in the back of my head, picking up and slamming our dog into its crate causing a dent, throwing temper tantrums and having full meltdowns

[inhua]

a lot of women have this belief, they can be like men. problem is a lot of them can not be like men and it's not about the physicality but the mentality also

the mentality to go through hardships and see the positives of it. e. g. those who have such a mentality wouldn't be rambling about how difficult pregnancy is. physically yes it is difficult but with a men's mentality they would embrace it just like pro-athletes embrace working tirelessly on their craft or soldiers embrace ruthless military training

in your case, she thought she could handle your autism and that it sounded great on paper but she couldn't handle it in practice. this isn't necessarily fake on her part but a severe underestimation of what she thought she could handle

[Asker]

It’s a superiority complex that I have called out on occasion she would say things like you’re lucky to have me and basically place herself above me. That’s another reason I believe this has failed is because she never saw me as equal. She has also been abusive she has slapped me In the back of my head twice

[inhua]

being a man is more than just the physical. it involves a lot of mental and we often have to enjoy the hard shit that others don't enjoy going through physically. which is why there's a man who excels the best in every field whether it be sports, politics, art. academics, hospitality etc.

[In_Trance]

For the same reason guys are