Why do a lot women lie about looks not mattering?

[Anonymous]

I’m just curious to know why most women lie about looks not mattering. I know some men lie about it too but women will genuinely lie and say looks don’t matter at all. I’ve always been tall (I’m 6’4 like 185 now ) but when I added some weight, got tatted up and grew my hair n beard out I got WAY more attention from women. Oddly enough I had a friend in high school who was really good looking and girls would literally throw themselves at him. We started going to the gym our senior year and he got offered a modeling gig from a local modeling agency (he turned it down because he thought the guy was feminine trying to hit on him). We both graduated high school virgins him by choice I just couldn’t get laid or I was just too awkward and didn’t know what I know now but why do they do this handsome men even get treated better compared to unattractive men.

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Also I know as women age looks stop being the number 1 factor but they still matter 100% especially between 18-30

[Anonymous]

Because women don't like to admit their shallowness. You have to understand deceptiveness is second nature to women. They lie so much they even lie to themselves. When they reject an ugly guy they have actually already convinced themselves it's for other reasons. That's why women will always tell you "it was his personality". Because when you repeat the lie enough to yourself enough it becomes the truth.

[Asker]

I agree I have a friend group of 4 and we talk about a lot of shit I’ve come to the conclusion that a lot of women are closeted thots they just don’t want to be viewed as such ( I personally don’t judge women for wanting sex or whatever they do it’s not my place to but they definitely will sleep with certain guy’s while making others wait

[Opinion Owner]

Most women today. The problem is women today have been fed a steady diet of feminism to the point they really don't even know what it means to be a woman anymore. Many come from single mothers and so it's learned behaviour. There are still good women out there but they're rare. Basically maybe about 20%. And they get snapped up quick. They're all but married off by 25. After 25 you're really gambling when it comes to women.

[Anonymous]

Most women want to project a nice aura although they are just as shallow as men. Looks matter the most in a relationship for both. Have you seen any good-looking guy staying single? They can be miserable still can pull tons of girls. Whether a not-so-good-looking guy struggles to get a single one. Ugly women have it harder too but less than ugly guys.

[KatherineJ]

You’re right. You have to be appealing. But that’s so subjective that I would say that if you don’t look like Shrek, someone will find you attractive.

[Asker]

Bullshit! Handsome guys or fuck boys first THEN regular/average guys get them and the average guy has to be willing to spend money but I get what you’re saying

[KatherineJ]

Beauty (male OR female) is in the eye of the beholder.

[Asker]

I agree with what you’re saying 1000% but most women would definitely find a prime brad pit, Johnny depp or Leonardo DiCaprio attractive no questions asked

[KatherineJ]

Of course!