Why do women lie and say that looks are not that important to get laid?

[Incel666]

Women always fckg lie and say its all about confidence 🤣. And It seems like most guys are "bluepilled" and want to hide from the truth, which is that, if you don't look good as a man you won't be able to get sex. My friends always tell me "lol just be confident bro, just get out and approach bro, just take a shower bro", shit that EVERY GUY DOES. But most guys still can't get laid (Im talking about younger guys like me by the way 18-25). Still, people are gonna tell me "Oh you're wrong, I see many couples where the guy is ugly, etc" BUT, such couples are always much older (30 years old +), and the men are just used for money, and get cucked regularly.
Like srsly, the confidence thing is such cock sucking shit. Im confident as hell bc I just dont give a fuck about anything, Im super extraverted, I go to work, I study, my hygiene is perfect, I go to the gym 6×/week and I play football. Im not a lazy fucker, i get shit done. BUT STILL, I can't GET LAID. I ALWAYS GET REJECTED BY WOMEN. Why? It can't be my confidence/personality because I have many friends, I have social skills, etc. I have a deep voice, the problem isn't the way I talk, its not my height bc Im 6ft2, I take care of myself, I wear trendy clothes. Therefore, if I go by elimination, the issue must be my face. So to conclude, girls reject me because my face is ugly, and as a result, looks is everything. Q. E. D.

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I always get banned on this fucking website so stop reporting me just for stating my opinion you cucks. thanks

[SueShe]

You don't get banned for expressing your opinions but you do get banned for insulting others with the way you express yourself and the insults you spew.

Take your best school grammar and express yourself like a decent person and not like a moron that is ranting about something or someone. Do it a way that makes you be respected and not despised.

Insulting others will not bring you any sympathy or positive comments but being civil and decent will. It's your choice.

[Incel666]

Yo dont you fucking talk about my grammar, Im a smart guy. But yeah, I've insulted people before, but not with this new account

[XxEdgeLordxX]

Well, yikes this is a tough one. Not all women go for looks. Not all women go for personality. Not all women go for the money. It all depends on what crowd you’re in. You work out, play football, hygiene is fantastic, and you wear trendy clothes. Working out can attract any women. Seeing a man in shape is always a great sight. They’re trying to improve themselves for themselves, not for someone else. Just reading from your post you sound very bold and very... rough? Girls want a man that will listen and understand them. But if it’s a one night stand, you might be a bit too bold. It can scare the ladies away. You seem to speak without thinking which is often seen as being confident. You can potentially offend women without realizing it. Now I’ve never been able to understand why people dress ‘trendy.’ Don’t trends change constantly? Besides, usually you have to dress on who you want to attract. So you want someone trendy. Good luck!

[XxEdgeLordxX]

Actually, women usually have each other if they have issues. It shows a man’s sensitive side if they listen. It also shows respect. Not all women are the same, you have to remember that. Also, women are much more sensitive than men. We take things to heart. Even if it was just a little joke to the men, women will take it too seriously and remember that for the rest of their lives. Some women are tough enough to fight back. My apologies if I had offended you with the little ‘good luck’ thing. I had to go and didn’t have enough time to properly end my opinion. I was right. You’re definitely bold. Some women like that. At least, if their tough enough to handle it. I can tell you’ve been through a lot. You probably loved someone and they changed your view on women completely. Is that true? Not all women are the same you know. Some do truly care and can be sweet hearts. You need someone who is tough enough to deal with you and to want to be by your side. If you expose a bit of sensitivity, it goes a long way trust me. I’m sorry if I offended you in any way. I just want to try to help, have a good day/night! 😊

[Don-__-Don]

It is about look, if we're strictly just talking about getting laid.

You got to be physically appealing to a person if order for there to even be any attraction.
With no attraction, sex is most likely out of the question.

Unless there's just desperation involved.

Anyways,

They probably lie about because they don't want to be seen as shallow or bad if they were to be actually honest.

[Don-__-Don]

looks*

[Incel666]

Yeah I 100% agree man

[WesBrewer]

not sure if they do it to get laid, but not all of them are lying, it seems most are though, and they say that because it feels good to say.

[Incel666]

Yeah totally, and thats why they dont answer to this thread, because I have revealed their true nature, and theyve got nothing to say now

[iseekpinetrees]

Looks are important as is confidence. If this picture on your profile is you. I don't think your a bad lookin fella. Looks aren't your issue with getting ladies. Just by reading what you wrote your tone is angry. Do you act angry or cocky when you talk to women or are you shy and hesitant? Often if your overly confident you might be giving off fuck boy vibes or just asshole vibes. When really you might just be a nice person. The only time I have been around someone that sounds similar to your post they had some pent up anger towards women usually because one girl hurt them in the past? Does this sound familiar to you?

[alicat2358]

Looks do matter, but personally matters more. Just like looks would matter to a guy. Maybe you're just not getting laid because of your personality. Keep in mind everyone is different and everyone has their own preference. Maybe you're setting your standards too high, try going for someone in your league or try going for a chick who isn't shallow

[Anonymous]

I don't give a f*ck about how perfect you think you are.. I know guys like you, the face is not the issue.. Of course you won't listen to me, and you'll try and insult me instead, so go ahead, or come back when you grow the hell up.

[Opinion Owner]

@incel666 What is it? I think I've made it quite clear, what it is, but if you want me to spell it out for you: anyone who finds themself "fucking perfect" is very far from perfect. As for why I'm anonymous, maybe I don't want someone like you to know who tf I am?

[Incel666]

YOU are the one who said that I think im perfect, my reply is a fucking joke lmao obviously im not "perfect". You were just projecting by saying that I think Im perfect, maybe YOU believe im perfect? 😂

[Opinion Owner]

@incel666 "It can't be my confidence/personality because I have many friends, I have social skills, etc. I have a deep voice, the problem isn't the way I talk, its not my height bc Im 6ft2, I take care of myself, I wear trendy clothes." how is this not you thinking you're perfect?

[Opinion Owner]

First of all, don't call me "bitch" because that's fucking rude, second of all, yes, I admit to the fact that you didn't say it directly, but that's the vibe I'm getting from you, and that's what counts, isn't it? The vibe you are projecting in the eyes of women?

Also all the "maybe you think I'm perfect" stuff doesn't really do anything for the immaturity you've already showed here, because I quite obviously don't find you perfect.

[Avicenna]

I have a hard time believing that you're approaching them confidently. That is part of the equation whether you believe it or not.

[Incel666]

Why do u have a hard time believing it? Im probably more confident than everyone here combined lmao I've never been the shy quiet type

[Avicenna]

So what is causing you to get rejected so often?

[Incel666]

My face

[Avicenna]

I have a hard time believing that alone would cause you to get consistently rejected, but nothing else.

[Avicenna]

But, what would you want to do about it?

[Incel666]

Its the only explanation i have.
I don't know Im probably just going to pay escorts for the rest of my life. If I still can't get laid before 25, I will shotgun my face probably. It depends

[Avicenna]

Have you asked any women for feedback on how they rate your face and what they think of it?

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Well they are important. But they are only your presentation card. After that you need a good personality and attitude.

[Incel666]

Yeah, but I've got the personality and attitude, and it got me nowhere. Girls dont even look at me in the eyes when i talk to them, its like my face is deformed

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

After I read all of it I have to say I know what is preventing you from getting laid. I can see you are in shape, you look tall, you look like you take care of yourself so IT'S YOUR PERSONALITY. It has to be, no other reason.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

There is nothing wrong with your face. It must be the way you act around them.

[Incel666]

I have a better personality than most people. Im always honest, not submissive in the way i act, im just being myself

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Look I don't know you in person so I can't say for sure why you are not having a lot of luck.
But I can tell you it has nothing to do with your looks. I have seen guys your age, uglier than you, having no problem in getting girls.
What is your method? How do you approach them?

[Incel666]

I dont have any "methods" hahA. I just do it naturally. there's a chick in my class, I think she's cute, I go talk to her. Like i say "hey whats up? I think you're cute, wanna go take a drink sometime" smthin like that

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

To direct.
If you are at a bar or at a party, going to the point as asking right away if she wants a drink is fine.
at school it's a different setting, you need to give them some conversation first. You have the courage to approach and say "Hi" that is good. Do that, talk with the girl and ask for her number. Then exchange messages, flirt with her and when you feel the time is right ask her out.

[Incel666]

I've already done this before lol I told you, I dont have any specific method, it was just a random example. Usually, I dont ask a girl in my class to take a drink the first time I talk to her

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Can't help you more than this without knowing knowing you better.
I didn't used to have a lot of luck with girls. I was skinny and a goofy kind of guy.
Got to the gym, continued to be a goofy guy, but I became a confident goofy guy. Never had problems with getting girls again.

Do you have any female friends? Or a sister? A female cousin?

[Incel666]

Yeah I have 2 sisters, some female cousins

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

If they are more a less your age ask them for advice. They will give it better than anyone.

[Incel666]

I've already asked them, but theyre stupid as fuck. They always repeat the same shit everyone says "just be confident bro", but theyre still very shallow. My little sister is 17 and the other is 23 I don't know if it changes anything. Theyre no different than other women, shallow and empty

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

They are trying to help you, they are your sisters and being honest with you.

[spuitkaas]

I mean I don't know what you want from us? You seem to have figured out your answer.

[Secret6620]

Why do you keep deactivating and reactivating to ask these questions?

[disgustingweebtrash]

>6 ft 2
>gym
>white
>still incel
How is this possible Anon? Surely you must be trying to not get laid.

[PaganWarrior]

I can see why the hell you ain't getting women straight away.

[Incel666]

I already know why stop thinking ure wise, the issue is my face. The rest is perfect, and I've worked hard on all facets of my life. Maybe im not tall enough I don't know 6ft2 seems pretty average in 2020

[PaganWarrior]

Lmfao.
you're already wrong, pal.

[Incel666]

Dont call me pal and state your opnion already jeez

[PaganWarrior]

I can call you whatever the hell I want.. And it's you're immature shitty attitude. Nothing else.

[PaganWarrior]

You'd have to get past the men who'd murder you first.. And you, are nothing more than an immature child. I'm glad that women steer clear of you.. Coming out with things like that. I don't need to ask tough, and not all women are weaker. I've seen a woman batter a guy before so lol. Grow up.

[Machiavellio]

The only time looks aren't important to those women is when their game is about money

[Iron_Man]

They are phony baloney

[MzAsh]

Looks does matter to women too. It’s natural.

[SavageGirl101]

Lol they are cursing u outtt in these comments 😭

[SavageGirl101]

U can cum on mine🙈

[SavageGirl101]

I-😳

[In_Trance]

Because it works