Why do women lie and say that looks are not that important to get laid?

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Women always fckg lie and say its all about confidence 🤣. And It seems like most guys are "bluepilled" and want to hide from the truth, which is that, if you don't look good as a man you won't be able to get sex. My friends always tell me "lol just be confident bro, just get out and approach bro, just take a shower bro", shit that EVERY GUY DOES. But most guys still can't get laid (Im talking about younger guys like me by the way 18-25). Still, people are gonna tell me "Oh you're wrong, I see many couples where the guy is ugly, etc" BUT, such couples are always much older (30 years old +), and the men are just used for money, and get cucked regularly.
Like srsly, the confidence thing is such cock sucking shit. Im confident as hell bc I just dont give a fuck about anything, Im super extraverted, I go to work, I study, my hygiene is perfect, I go to the gym 6×/week and I play football. Im not a lazy fucker, i get shit done. BUT STILL, I can't GET LAID. I ALWAYS GET REJECTED BY WOMEN. Why? It can't be my confidence/personality because I have many friends, I have social skills, etc. I have a deep voice, the problem isn't the way I talk, its not my height bc Im 6ft2, I take care of myself, I wear trendy clothes. Therefore, if I go by elimination, the issue must be my face. So to conclude, girls reject me because my face is ugly, and as a result, looks is everything. Q. E. D.

XxEdgeLordxX · Accepted Answer

Well, yikes this is a tough one. Not all women go for looks. Not all women go for personality. Not all women go for the money. It all depends on what crowd you’re in. You work out, play football, hygiene is fantastic, and you wear trendy clothes. Working out can attract any women. Seeing a man in shape is always a great sight. They’re trying to improve themselves for themselves, not for someone else. Just reading from your post you sound very bold and very... rough? Girls want a man that will listen and understand them. But if it’s a one night stand, you might be a bit too bold. It can scare the ladies away. You seem to speak without thinking which is often seen as being confident. You can potentially offend women without realizing it. Now I’ve never been able to understand why people dress ‘trendy.’ Don’t trends change constantly? Besides, usually you have to dress on who you want to attract. So you want someone trendy. Good luck!

SueShe · Accepted Answer

You don't get banned for expressing your opinions but you do get banned for insulting others with the way you express yourself and the insults you spew.

Take your best school grammar and express yourself like a decent person and not like a moron that is ranting about something or someone. Do it a way that makes you be respected and not despised.

Insulting others will not bring you any sympathy or positive comments but being civil and decent will. It's your choice.

Don-__-Don · Accepted Answer

It is about look, if we're strictly just talking about getting laid.

You got to be physically appealing to a person if order for there to even be any attraction.
With no attraction, sex is most likely out of the question.

Unless there's just desperation involved.

Anyways,

They probably lie about because they don't want to be seen as shallow or bad if they were to be actually honest.

WesBrewer · Accepted Answer

not sure if they do it to get laid, but not all of them are lying, it seems most are though, and they say that because it feels good to say.

iseekpinetrees · Answer

Looks are important as is confidence. If this picture on your profile is you. I don't think your a bad lookin fella. Looks aren't your issue with getting ladies. Just by reading what you wrote your tone is angry. Do you act angry or cocky when you talk to women or are you shy and hesitant? Often if your overly confident you might be giving off fuck boy vibes or just asshole vibes. When really you might just be a nice person. The only time I have been around someone that sounds similar to your post they had some pent up anger towards women usually because one girl hurt them in the past? Does this sound familiar to you?

alicat2358 · Answer

Looks do matter, but personally matters more. Just like looks would matter to a guy. Maybe you're just not getting laid because of your personality. Keep in mind everyone is different and everyone has their own preference. Maybe you're setting your standards too high, try going for someone in your league or try going for a chick who isn't shallow

Anonymous · Answer

I don't give a f*ck about how perfect you think you are.. I know guys like you, the face is not the issue.. Of course you won't listen to me, and you'll try and insult me instead, so go ahead, or come back when you grow the hell up.

Avicenna · Answer

I have a hard time believing that you're approaching them confidently. That is part of the equation whether you believe it or not.

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

Well they are important. But they are only your presentation card. After that you need a good personality and attitude.

spuitkaas · Answer

I mean I don't know what you want from us? You seem to have figured out your answer.

Secret6620 · Answer

Why do you keep deactivating and reactivating to ask these questions?

PaganWarrior · Answer

I can see why the hell you ain't getting women straight away.

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

>6 ft 2 >gym >white >still incel How is this possible Anon? Surely you must be trying to not get laid.

Machiavellio · Answer

The only time looks aren't important to those women is when their game is about money

Iron_Man · Answer

They are phony baloney

MzAsh · Answer

Looks does matter to women too. It’s natural.

SavageGirl101 · Answer

Lol they are cursing u outtt in these comments 😭

In_Trance · Answer

Because it works

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