What's a good way to break up over text?

[Anonymous]

She lives an hour and a half away, so I don't wanna make her drive however long to meet me just so to break up with her.
Plus I don't wanna see her stupid face. She makes my skin crawl

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You know what, the stupid whiny girl who answered is right. I'm not gonna break up over text. I'm gonna have drive all the way up to my house and tell her I have a surprise for her. Then when she gets there I'm gonna dump her hard and send her home crying. Thank you whiny little twat, you were right

[lightbulb27]

yikes. however it goes, I hope you get to a better place and find someone better. One has to wonder why you were with her to begin with... I'd put more energy into analyzing that.

Seems simple to send a short message or call...

[mommymommymommy]

Never break up over text. Also this is usually why LDR doesn't work. If you really want to break it off, go to her, and tell her to her face

[Anonymous]

YOU drive over to her place to tell her. You don’t breakup over text and the fact you’re even thinking it would be HER to drive to YOU for something like this is very telling of what kind of person you are.

[Asker]

Nah, she's not worth the drive. If you knew her and the way she treated me, you wouldn't be so quick to judge

[Asker]

A text is more than she deserves. I should just ghost her ass

[Asker]

But tha is for the judgmental non answer you fucking cunt

[Asker]

And I was talking about meeting halfway if you were smart enough to read

[Anonymous]

what did she do that was so bad?

[Asker]

I found out she cheated twice. She doesn't know I know, and I dont want her to.
Which is why I don't think I'm in the wrong for not doing it in a respectful way and looking out for her feelings.
She denied me sex because she was out getting it somewhere else

[Opinion Owner]

yeah dump her over text

[Asker]

So I don't want to tell the truth and just have it turn into her blaming me and walking away justified in her actions.
I'd rather her leave thinking there's something wrong with her and not knowing what it was.
Cheaters deserve nothing less

[Asker]

I will. Thank you!

[Opinion Owner]

good i agree! Keep the dumping short make her overthink. You deserve better

[Asker]

That's good advice. Thanks for saying that 😊
Everyone does

[Asker]

Except cheaters lol

[Opinion Owner]

yess and child rapists😌

[Asker]

Lol, absolutely! Them too especially

[Opinion Owner]

Thankyou for MHO.

How did it go?

[Asker]

It went about how you'd expect.
She fed me some bullshit about how I never wanted her as much as she wanted me.
So of course it's MY fault.
I'm glad I didn't do it in person, it could've gotten out of hand

[Opinion Owner]

Good!

You just ignored her?