Girls, Is it romantic if…?

[Anonymous]

Do woman find it romantic if you had a fight and it was clearly the man’s fault but he chases you and tells you that he would never let you go and wants to fight for you no matter what?

I know it’s very fairytale-esq but I’m just curious if it would warm a woman’s heart if she truly loved you and saw a future with you

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I wouldn't find it romantic. I'd want my space if we had a fight and if he pushed the issue it would make me feel like he doesn't respect me. If it's his fault he would need to apologize then give me whatever time I need to process what happened.

[Asker]

What’s a general timeline for the processing period? Everything went down on the third, we had a talk in person on the 8th, where I apologized for everything in detail that I’d done wrong and where she told me she still loves me but said she needed to process things. She’s blocked me on social media but she hasn’t blocked my number (not that it matters since neither of us really post on social media anyways) but it’s been radio silence for a week now. I know I’m being impatient but she means the world to me and I just wanted a woman’s perspective about a rough timeline on when/if I should just give up?

Hence why I asked if I bumped into her at work (we work for the same company just different locations) and just tell her that “I’m not giving up on us and trying to make this work” (something along those lines) would come off as a romantic gesture, or one that shows how much she means to me

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

It really depends on what you did wrong. For me, I usually need a few hours to process things and get over my anger. If I'm taking a week or more to process then someone had to REALLY have messed up.

I don't think you should give up yet. Maybe send her some of her favorite flowers (or whatever gifts she likes) and an apology then just let her come to you.

I won't deny that sometimes we need to get out of our own head and see that our partner still loves us and is apologetic. So just try the flower thing and see how it goes.

[Asker]

It came down to a communication thing. I was being passive aggressive about things for the last month or so and whenever she’d talk to me about it, I thought I understood what she was saying but it took her leaving and space for me to actually understand what she meant, after I fully analyzed things with a fine tooth comb. There was no cheating or anything like that.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Well when she talks to you again, explain that to her. Hopefully she comes around soon.

[Agape93]

No absolutely not. If we are done, we are done. End of story. If he keeps pushing for hs to get back together, I'm filing harassment charges and seeking a no contact order. If he legit chases medown, he's getting shot.