I slept with my ex after five months, and he ate me out for the first time ever. Is that a good sign?

[Anonymous]

We broke up five months ago due to long distance. Went no contact for two months. Now we’ve talked every day for the last three months and finally got together last night with friends.

We were together 2 years. During that time, We had great sexual chemistry but he never ate me out, nor tried. So I was taken back when he did last night. He seems to have changed but I’m just more confused than ever.

Yes, that’s an intimate act

No

Maybe

[Billlewis]

I think it's definitely a positive sign. Hopefully, he'll continue to do this for you.

[Asker]

I guess I just looked at it as something really intimate considering he never performed it while we were dating. I guess looking for hope that there may be a future

[Billlewis]

Sometimes a guy will realize how lucky he is to have a girlfriend who is ideal for him, and work harder to please her when she gives him a second chance.

[Asker]

Wow, I love this thought. Thank you for your insight and not judging mine.

[Billlewis]

You're quite welcome, ma'am. I kind of have a one track mind; I'm seemingly always focused on pleasing the female:)

[Anonymous]

ehhh i don't think it'll work out simply because you have a few things going against you, still. 1, long distance. 2, you already broke up previously. 3, only seems like this "relationship" will turn out to be strictly sexual.

[strateguy632]

2th.

[KrakenAttackin]

A good sign of what?

[Asker]

Great question, I’m not sure. I miss him, truly and saw my whole life with him. I realize break ups are for a reason, and sex is just sex… but I guess I just really wanted to hear that this is a good sign of getting back together. Finding any excuse. I know lame but that’s where I’m at