My boyfriend showed me a video of him having sex with someone else telling me do u think I will cry if u disappear?

[Emmy87]

He thought I was cheating on him with my manager I told him I didn’t he never heard me so I stopped texting and calling , he was happy showing me the video and he was the one who managed the new date after 3 months of breakup, why did he hurt me and is he a narcissist?

[RespectfulGuy]

I think it's extremely immature to show an ex videos with the intent to hurt. And that tells a lot about him.

Since you already break off and blocked him, it's time for you to forgive him.

Yes, forgive.

Don't hold grudges because that's exactly what he wants to do to you - to hurt you and hold on to you so that you cannot move on.

But learn to be gracious and forgive him. Tell yourself he's so immature and may find true happiness in better relationship in the future.

Then move on.

Your happiness depends on how big your heart is now.

[Flatmanlewis]

This guy is a toxic, narcissistic, self-absorbed, asshole. Unless you cheated on him and this was his ‘cry me a River’ moment, then I can’t even comprehend this level of douchebaggery.


Walk. Heck, RUN! There is no happy ending to a guy like this.

[Emmy87]

I’ve never cheated on him, I badly love him, before what happened I couldn’t imagine my life without his presence even he wasn’t that caring and we had fights I always was the one to initiate and say sorry even if I wasn’t mistaken. he always had doubts that I will cheat on him he was asking me if anyone could touch me the same way he does or if I’ve ever been pleased in sex like I am with him, he was jealous of my boss thinking that I will cheat on him with my boss he saw how friendly my boss is and immediately asked why he is that friendly have u ever had sex with him before
At the beginning he was great (loving and caring) later on he started being far, careless and never calling or answering my calls only texting good morning and good night texts

[Avicenna]

That should make you break up with him pronto.

[Emmy87]

I have already done and I blocked him everywhere, but I can’t stop thinking of why can a person be that harmful, I can’t stop thinking of the video I can’t calm down

[richardcory]

At least if you ever had any doubts that breaking up with him was the right thing to do - now you know.

I wonder if his current girlfriend knows he is sending out their private videos to an ex?

You good to be rid of this guy.

[Emmy87]

It would be better if he sent it to me , he invited me to his place on a new date to fix things up , he went to bring tissues and I asked why you’re bringing tissues he said may be we will need them, he brought his phone played the video then I started crying and he was smiling , he threw the tissues and said I told we will need them , don’t ever think i will cry if u disappear

[richardcory]

What a total asshole.

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a real scumbag on many levels, and a very immature one as well.

[spartan55]

What does it matter if he is a narcissist or not? What does that change?

[Emmy87]

It changes nothing, but I can’t imagine a normal person can do that
I just can’t stop thinking of what happened
I have already break up with him but I feel hurt

[spartan55]

So call him whatever you want and move on.

[Emmy87]

I broke up with him immediately
But the pain is killing me

[spartan55]

Like I said call him whatever you need to call him to make yourself feel better and move on.

[slatyb]

He's certainly abusive. Get the hell out.

[Emmy87]

I’m out, I have already broke up with him and blocked him everywhere but I can’t stop thinking

[slatyb]

Congratulations!!! Consider couseling?

[Emmy87]

I think I need counseling, I can't sleep, eat or even join friends I am shocked and the flashbacks keep coming to my head

[Iron_Man]

That’s disgusting and disrespectful big red flag

[Emmy87]

I hope I saw red flags at the beginning he seemed perfect so loving and caring, at least if I saw the red flags from the beginning it couldn’t break me
Yes it’s disrespectful
I have already broken up with him and blocked him immediately

[Iron_Man]

That’s good, but you don’t have to block him

[Emmy87]

Why not, I don’t want to leave any open door
I used no contact with him before and when he was sure I won’t get back to him he started calling and texting
I don’t want to know anything about him

[Iron_Man]

Because the guy could try to fix it and come back and apologize and do things but instead you’re cutting him off for life

[Emmy87]

I have been with him for a year and a half during the whole period he was only good at the beginning then he started being cold and hot, once we fight he used to use the silent treatment reding my texts without responding or answering my calls I’m not telling u I’m perfect I also do commit mistakes but he never communicates to solve problems he only goes silent until I go to his place and tell him I am sorry even my mistakes were a reaction to his carelessness, the last two months were like hill I told him I am joining a conference with my boss to another country he went crazy so I respected him and didn’t join the conference he thought that I’m cheating on him that’s why my boss chose me, he didn’t appreciate that I haven’t joined the conference even it was very important and paid twice my salary
and after that everything started being so toxic he drained all my energy to prove to him that I deserve his love and I am faithful he stoped talking to me I even went to his place twice and he was there but he didn’t open the door he showed me himself to let me know he is in, then I stopped going or texting after 3 weeks he texted I replied and he told me he misses me we started texting twice a week he wanted to meet again but he was never the same
even when we had sex he was asking me has your boss ever fucked u has he ever touched u the same way I do could he please u the same way I do and the next day he turns to silence again
I kept asking him do u want to keep this relationship or you want to break it up he never answered my question he was one day good and ten days as if I’ve never existed days passed without reading my texts
Then all of a sudden he texted again to fix up everything and showed me that fucking video

[Iron_Man]

Sorry to hear that

[Emmy87]

thanks 🙏🏻

[Iron_Man]

You are welcome

[Fireguy17]

It sounds like he is more of a giant ass hat.

[Wise4myage]

I sure hope you dumped his sorry ass on the spot.

[Emmy87]

Yes I have broken up with him immediately and blocked him everywhere

[Wise4myage]

Great!!