What was the reason for your divorce or breakup?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

She was cheating with her ex. It was going on for more than three years, since less than a month after our marriage. I found out because her friend told me. She still doesn't know that, and I don't want to destroy her relationship with her friend. She has no idea how I found out.

[Gent207-2]

She cheated for the 3rd time while I was an hour away at uni

[Asker]

Did you caught her?

[Gent207-2]

She confessed
I conferred with a friend and we agreed this was the end. I told her it was over.
8 years later I can still hear her crying out my name you promised". I said goodbye and hunger up the phone.
Slammed my fists into the floor of my dorm.
Second to Kidney stones is the pain one experiences from betrayal

[Asker]

I'm sorry. Did you find another girl?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Damn bro. Then she tried to make you into the bad guy

[Gent207-2]

@WanderingLoveWizard she succeeded in the eyes of most of our mutual friends except for one - the one I consulted with

[WanderingLoveWizard]

What a ho

[Gent207-2]

@WanderingLoveWizard eh
The week after she confessed - she got sick, nearly lost her job, totalled her car and a month later got tossed put of her parents house.
After moving in with the guy she got knocked up and they got married that following year.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Good, she got what she deserved. I hope things worked out better for you

[Bricealan]

Married a woman who had multiple marriages and children. Did not rush into it, and dated for 4 years, and lived together for 6 months prior to marriage. Very pretty woman, attracted men like flies to honey.

Problem was, our sex life, and she really 'pretended' to like sex, and when it came down to it, I had enough experiences prior to her that I knew the difference, between someone that did like and those that acted. That put me off, and our relationship went to pot. She left me for another 'lover' and moved out while I was at work. Twenty (20) years ago. Recently contacted me with some problem with her License, and I helped her.

No bitterness here, just a life lesson for me.

[clampfan101]

My first girlfriend passed away.
Nothing else could separate us.

[Asker]

I'm sorry for your loss.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Still trying to figure that out, she never told me

[erandal]

Caught him in bed with one of my (now-ex) friends.

[MissBoogus]

He was a pedophile