I broke it off with the guy and we haven’t spoke in 3 days. He kept bothering me to come see him I didn’t want to but when I agreed to the next day I changed my mind and told him he later got upset and sent me another girl saying she’s coming to see him I was hurt ofcourse because he acted like I was the only one the way he would act when I’ll try leaving. So long story short after that I cut it off completely. Now today he writes me “ I don’t hate you “ and that lefted me confused because I feel like he’s playing victim like if he didn’t do anything when he could’ve just lefted me alone when we broke it off the first time instead he kept begging for me back but yet had someone else this whole time and it took for him ti get mad to finally tell me all of that.
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He is indecisive, and immature in some regards. You can do better.
I know. I stopped talking to him and today he wrote me “ i don’t hate you “ out of nowhere. Like huh? Lol
You will find a better one 😊
Ignore him completely.
You deserve a better guy.
I have been ignoring him. He wrote me that out of nowhere though. I don’t know why.
He wants to draw your attention and make you feel guilty and jealous
Yea after sending me that I completely cut him off. Now he sends me a message saying he don’t hate me out of nowhere haven't spoke to him in 3 days
Yeah he's gaslighting you.
Move on from that toxic guy