Do you think it’s weird?

[Anonymous]

That many people don’t date people with the intention of marriage. That’s worrying. Like what’s the point then? Why you wasting your time and others?
Many people just date casually, what is the point. It’s also harming a woman’s chances in finding a long term partner as that is a complete red flag when a guy finds out.

Yh that is weird

No it isn’t weird

[Static_In_The_Attic]

What some people think is weird others might not & when it come to dating there is nothing that says you have to get married in the first place.

As for divorce lawyers they love when people get married because the second you say I DO the odds of staying together are against you.

Marriage is like a hurricane there is a lot of blowing in the beginning & when it’s all said & done your house is gone.

As for me I’m not married & I don’t plan on getting married & nowadays I’m not stupid enough to do it. To me from what I see & from what I have experience the bond is a lot stronger without marriage where two hearts become one without signing papers.

I know a lot of couples that have been together for over 15 years & they are not married. I also have friend & know people that got married & I have heard a lot of horror stories. I know a couple that got married, divorced & now they are back together unmarried & talking to them they are a lot happier.

There is nothing wrong with dating for life & if you want to get married that is your decision & I wish you the best of luck bro.

[SueShe]

Dating, as per the original intent has long ceased to exist. Nowadays, the signification of the word "dating" is simply to fornicate and then to end that act as soon as the person represents no longer a novelty and has been overused.

The next victim is then searched, most of the time through hook up sites, disguised in dating sites.

Since internet started taking care of dating, with its plethora of hook up and porn sites has lost all its meaning. One does not date to find a long term partner (30+ years) but at best for a few weeks or month till that partner is no long presenting any physical attraction.

[LauraJ00]

I agree with you. What a complete and utter waste of time.

[Nikki1989]

People have lives that don't allow time for serious dating.

[In_Trance]

Not weird

[Asker]

How come? Marriage not worth it anymore