started dating my best friend of 14 years. she broke up with me due to me being a virgin because sex was super important to her. she refused to take my v-card said she had no interest in doing that. we still hung out a lot kissed held hands etc but i was always hit with the i like you and really want to be with you but i can't due to you being a virgin. this continued about two weeks till one day she told me she was done with me didn't like me anymore and had no feelings for me anymore and didn't respond to me for a week due to a lie i allegedly told her (i didn't) during this week in time i ended up sleeping with a friend of mine- keep in mind we were not together at the time. i thought i needed to move on so i did. about a week and a half later we reconnected. we were never officially together but we were working on things. she found out i had lost my virginity and she was pissed. she never told me directly but i found out two weeks later from a friend it really hurt her that she actually cried over it. while we talked we never hung out again and eventually she said she couldnt get past it and blocked my number. im sorry i hurt her but im just confused on the entire situation can't be with me because im a virgin, refuses to take it we break up and i was told she had no feelings for me anymore then gets mad i slept with someone when we were separated. further more i found out from the regulars at the bar we went to by her place the week we broke up she was there with another guy about three days strait and they were getting intimate. how is what she did any dif from what i did? help me understand it. is she just toxic and manipulative. obviously i can't ask her due to me being blocked and after i found out she was upset she refused to meet up and talk to me.
Girls, can some help me understand, I just dont understand it?
What Girls Said
I don't understand that myself. I don't want to take a man virginity myself unless he wants me to.
has nothing to do with that, i told her i was ready to take that step with her she refused said she couldnt but then gets mad i let someone else. her text to me was i didn't want to take yours but didn't want you sleeping with anyone else as well. on top of that if were not together why do you have any say in what i do. like really shouldn't you want someone to considering that was the one thing keeping us from beeing together