Girls, I dont understand?

[Anonymous]

so there is this girl in my class I am nervous around to the point where i can't really say much so a few days ago i said hi introduced myself and gave her a drawing i made cause i really love art and did not really get a response and i gave her a couple more drawings since not of her but just random things i like drawing and recently it feels like she started trying to ignore me by running off before i come out of class or just not looking at me or talking to me when she accepts them is she just rude or am i missing something i might have done that offended her?

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hi so thanks guys for awnsering my first question and my followup question is what do i do if this girl scares me for some reason i mean i dont like her as anything more than a friend but every time i see her i seem to say something i dont remember and then run off like a fool and i dont get it because i have never done this before and talk to girls all the time as most of my freinds are girls due to past issues with boys

[_Maya_]

You came on too strong and then kept doing it. She likely doesn't know what to do or think about these drawings you are giving her. I also don't know what the drawings are of which may play a big role or none at all. Either way you are smothering her by the sounds of it. Just pull back and give her some room to breathe because you are overwhelming her with these gestures. While sweet that you like her and are trying to give her hand made things, it's clear that she doesn't know how to respond. Instrad of piling drawings on her maybe just talk to her and get to know her a bit better. I'm sure it isn't that she doesn't appreciate the effort but just doesn't know how to react to all of this.

[Asker]

omg thank you so much i have been so confused and this helps so much!

[_Maya_]

I hope I helped

[_Maya_]

Thank you for most helpful opinion.

[Asker]

ofc you definatly deserve it I love how you awnser bluntly but also make someone feel better regardless of what your awnser is

[SueShe]

It looks as if you are imposing on that girl. You don't seem to give her space to breeze and you practically smother her with your drawings. A nice gesture of appreciation but not everyone appreciates art the way you do.

You may appear to be clingy or come across as needy and that is probably why she has a negative reaction to your approach.

You are acting as if you have a crush on her and by the way she reacts, this crush is not reciprocated.

What you have to do is to give her the space she needs, treat her like everyone else and not attempt to impose yourself onto her. Let the things settle. She is obviously not interested in deepening the relationship past being classmates. Good luck.

[Asker]

thank you for the advice I do wish to ask though now that I know this how do I even say anything without it being awkward cause I am very socially shy unless someone approaches me and while my intent was to be friends with her and get her to talk to me first I doubt that had happen so ig what I am asking is should I try to say sorry, stop suddenly or something else?

[SueShe]

No, don't say sorry. That would indicate that you believe that you did something wrong, which you did not. You tried to get her attention but it failed. You were gentleman enough to give her a present rather than to be obnoxious.

Just be your normal self and don't avoid the contact but also, don't force it because she does not seem to respond to those gifts.

Also, thanks for the MHO

[Nikki1989]

You did too much too fast. Take a more subtle approach in the future.