Girls, Please girls explain! Really need help?

[MauMauinlove]

hi.. ok im with this girl on and off for 5 years last 2 years we are going strong, i have a girlfriend never was a problem for her... She always had this friend that she talks a lot but i know for sure nothing happened... Last week we has a hugeeee epic fight literally huge... 3 days after she tells she is dating this guy... We got back together even more strong than ever, and she knows i hate his guts, and now I think she is making me jealous... We are having more sex now! I know for sure they only had couple kisses, we are going strong, she talks to me all day, we chat all day, she tells me she loves me and everything like even her sweetness grow a lot... She tells me that she do not want to have sex with him and everything like that... So is she playing me? I feel she really loves me, but sometimes I feel she is playing me! Girls help please... Thanks a million

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Yes we had a major fight cause I got jealous.. cause was first time I saw them together... And I know is not fair to be so because i have a girl... But I really like her and I even consider leaving my girl for her... Cause I love her... But I do know that we are on a Toxic relationship, we fight and go crazy for months and go again we cannot go apart.. we stop talking and boom back again... She says that she loves me and one feels but like I've said before I feel she is playing me now!!

[PrettyPriya]

I’m confused. Maybe it is just the way it was worded. You are on and off with this girl but have a girlfriend and this isn’t a problem with her? Do you mean that you are in a relationship and have this girl on the side you are on and off with? That’s basically the part I’m fuzzy on. If you could clarify.

The problem is that being on and off with someone is not good. Why are you on and off? Fights? If that is the case (like the last epic fight), sounds like you aren’t made for each other. Those things tend to not change. Sometimes people are just incompatible. I understand you like the intimacy but there is so much more to a relationship than that.

She seems like she is playing you. You can’t be involved with another guy and then tell you she loves you and doesn’t want him. This sounds as if she going to take whatever works best for her. It also sounds like (by your details) she is a cheater. Once a cheater always a cheater. Of course, I might not be understanding you correctly. If so, please provide an update using the update box.