What sentence it wasn't you but it was me mean… When breaking up someone?

[Anonymous]

[sage2021]

OMG! That has been a break up line for over 30 year's. When I dated guys in 1990, that was the biggest line. And I said to the guy "Of course it was your fault cause I never did anything wrong".

They used to say it to us in person. Now they just message you? It's totally unacceptable!

Call him on it. Tell him that's one of the oldest break up lines ever. Can't you think of a genuine reason of your own?

[petitedollbabee]

It means that you were not the problem or the cause of the breakup, they were. They may have had their own personal reasons for why they didn’t want to continue the relationship.

[Asker]

But why he said that you can still text me or call me?

[AmeerX]

It's just a pathetic little cliched answer to make someone feel they are blaming themselves. Victim player whoever said this in history

[provokeesmokee]

Could be a lie to save your feelings.

Could be the truth in that the person breaking up with you genuinely feels they're the issue - it could be true or it could be their perception of the truth.

[Anonymous]

they're probably lying. and not telling the truth on why they want to break up.