How would you describe the descent of a marriage?

[fuddly]

On a sliding scale

Not talking

No sex

Arguing

Money issues

Resort to drinking

Physical altercation

Call police

Updates

+1 y

I didn't include an obvious one: cheating, because in my situation that hasn't happened...

Updates

+1 y

I forgot to mention, hate

[IslaTheWitch]

In my situation? I still don't really know.

But he has a new girlfriend. We are in separation.

I don't care anymore.

[jimmy2]

50/50

[fuddly]

I don't really understand that

What i can say about my own situation

I became very angry

Police were called for what i would consider minor incident. And first such incident.

But now I'm the baddie and all i hear from wife is let's sell up and get divorced

[fuddly]

I'm really trying to figure this out

We got married 20 years ago
Eldest daughter is 20
Next is 18

Both children in college

After all the stress of getting them raised... I was big part of that
Now they are raised, seems there's actually zero relationship.

What kills me is if we separate we'll have he to sell up and wife will get half assets. If we stay together she will continue to get nothing. I'm inclined to stay together.