How to move on from a bad breakup?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I broke up, it was a bad argument and mainly my fault. I’ve apologised, gave her space and respected her decision that she wants nothing to do with me due to her blocking me a few weeks later despite us having no contact. I am trying to move on but I can’t stop thinking about her and how guilty I feel about screwing everything up. I’ve come to terms with the fact that I don’t deserve another chance and she clearly feels the same but I’m just looking for advice on how to move on from this and stop hurting.

[Oliverlogan263]

Here's some advice on moving on from a tough breakup, dude:

- Give yourself time. Breakups suck and it takes time to fully heal. Be patient with yourself as you work through the hurt and guilt.

- Lean on your friends. Share how you're feeling and do fun stuff to keep your mind occupied. They'll help lift your spirits.

- Delete and get rid of everything that reminds you of her - photos, texts, gifts, etc. Removing those triggers will make it easier.

- Work on improving yourself. Hit the gym, pick up a hobby, focus on your boys. Do things that make you feel good as an individual.

- Date around if you're ready. It might feel strange at first but helping other girls could take your focus off her.

- Forgive yourself. You made a mistake, but you also can't change the past. Stop beating yourself up over it and move forward.

- Give it time and soon you won't think about her as much. The initial sting fades more each day. Stay determined to get over it, man.

You'll get through this. It sucks now but you'll come out stronger. Try not to rush moving on - just take it one day at a time. You've got this!

[summiter]

Time will heal. Stay busy and active ( jerk off a lot... that helps) You will bounce back

[Akam93]

Play the song by luke bryan I got a beer in my hand. It will help. :)

[Tharithi]

What did u do