Lost my girl best friend :((?

[Anonymous]

I confessed that I liked her, but we said it's the best if we never meet again :((

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that really sucks. Losing a close friend always hurts. I know what it's like to catch feelings for a girl who just wants to be pals. It sounds like you were brave for telling her how you felt, even if it didn't work out how you hoped. Props for being honest!

Even though it hurts now, it was probably for the best that you two aren't hanging out anymore. Maintaining just a friendship would be really difficult after confessing your feelings. Better to get some space to move on.

Try not to dwell on it too much - easier said than done, I know. Keep yourself busy with other friends, activities you enjoy, and maybe try focusing on some other cute girls too. In time the sting will fade. You'll always cherish the good memories of your friendship even if it can't continue the same. She was lucky to have you care about her, and someone out there will appreciate that someday. Chin up - this too shall pass!

[melnc]

People come and fly, that's life.
Start living your own...

[_Maya_]

That is tough and the reason why I never suggest mixing friends and relationships. This is what can happen and now you don't have a friend anymore. I am really sorry to hear it happened but not at all surprised. It is the risk you run when you put your feelings out there and then they don't feel the same way. It sucks but the only thing you can do right now is give it some time. She might come around and let you back in her life. She also might not because she will always be aware of the fact you wanted more. All you can do is hope...

[ThrillSeeker01]

I'm sorry. It sounds like she's just not ready for a commitment. It's not like it's rare

[Al_Musafir]

Move on then?

[Asker]

yea, but loosing someone who cared about you sucks

[Al_Musafir]

Indeed. But you must gather yourself up. Time helps. All the best, man.

[Fanfare690]

That's rough I'm sorry