I need help. My girlfriend keeps letting her male best friend constantly come over like every other day come over and I'm getting annoyed with it, and she also let's him sleep over without asking me or letting me know, but she always claims that she will not all any man inside the house friends, nobody unless I'm home. Came home many times from work to find him and her in our place. She also let him hug her all the time, like almost an hour and let him hold her hands. There was also another time I got home from work and he was laying in our new bed I brought. I told her that is Fukin not cool to get his ass out of our bed right now. Her response was while wasted, "oh nothing going on his just my friend her my best friend". I said listen nobody in their right mind will let another man or woman lay in their partner's bed. Mind you her best friend that a guy wants to be with her and wants to pretty much Fuk her and she knows it and he admitted it many times. I can complain or have a civilized conversation to the point where she will get so mad where she will kick me out of the house or start cussing me out and yelling at me. Like for example he is here, and in the living while he is on the floor and she is on the couch. She asked me to put the tv on and I told her I can't find the remote, she said " oh, if he wanted the tv to work he would make it work". I just said it's not working and walked away. Everything that happens to her. Her excuse is that he and her are besties and they can do that sht. I'm at the point where I wanna save my money secretly and find a place of my own without her knowing and then sit her down when her bestie is being her and tell her that I expressed to her many times about boundaries with her and her best friend and I feel like she is not understanding my emotions and feelings, and unfortunately I will have to break up with you. Our relationship is good in our parts of our relationship. Etc...
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My girlfriend best friend?
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You end the relationship and kick her hoe ass to the curb
Do you think she'd have sex with him if she had the chance?
I ask myself many times, but what I'm about to say I mean no racism at all. She like only Blk man, she doesn't date Caucasian men. That her reason she said they never had sex before. Mind you she cheated on me already and took a long time to tell me. She cheated on me the first week of our relationship she said because I walked out and she thought I was not coming back, but we both never said the relationship was over. Then she was walking and ended up messing around with someone, while her best friend was watching and she admitted that as well. I won't lie I strongly feel that they are doing something, sex I don't know and I don't think so. But I do feel like she let him grab her AZZ many times and I caught him and she got mad at him, and I think she just did that to make me feel like she was not doing anything wrong. Everytime time I bring something up she get so mad, every time he around she get so Fuk up on liquor and weed to the point where I have no control it her way or get out. She tells her best friend everything in our personal relationship.
Can you afford a private investigator? Then you can have him/her follow her and see if she's cheating.
Then dump her.
I'm planning on going down that road. But, before I do. I'm going to save and rent a place and then sit her down and explain to her why the relationship is ending.
Hope she isn't cheating. Might dump her sooner than later. Could move in somewhere temporarily.