Her best friend is upset that I like her more?

[Anonymous]

does that make sense? i've been spending a lot of time with this girl as she is a server at a place that i go to and we hang out there. but a couple of her girlfriend's also work there. this one i used to also spend a lot of time with but never dated as she had a boyfriend

but now she's upset that when i go there i spend time with the other girl instead and don't talk to her as much. you can just see the look on her face when i do that

so she must like me or be bitter that i like her best friend so much?

[Gent207]

Non-verbals can have numerous meanings and us males are not the best at reading them. So are you sure she's jealous or just being standoffish?
Regardless if she's still in a committed relationship she's not your problem. Just keep being yourself

[Asker]

pretty sure there is something going on with her , she seems jealous although not entirely sure what this jealousy is all about. is she jealous i romantically like the friend? or more of a female jealousness that girlfriend is hot and getting more male attention than she did

although she's not single so thats where things get more confusing although i couldn't rule out the possibility that she liked me at this point

[Gent207]

Okay I'll bite
What does she do that makes you think she is jealous?
I mean specifically what does she say or do.
Please also include context like location

[Asker]

just the way she acts when i'm around the friend is a lot different , it mostly occurs at this pub/restaurant where they work/we go to. when she notices me specifically going to where her friend is she acts weird and she'll sometimes come over to talk to her for no reason just so she's suddenly around both of us

[Gent207]

Okay so something is up
But does it really matter? Just focus on getting to know the one you want

[Asker]

maybe but they spend a lot of time together so its still important to know whats going on

[Prof_Don]

Gals are hella jealous, she'll be upset you like the other girl more even if she never liked you! :'D

[CrazyGirl2]

Maybe if you were serious enough about knowing that you used your REAL username, I might be serious enough to answer your question!