My girlfriend cheated on me with her best friend and now she wants him back as a friend?

I have wrote about this topic before but I have more to say since more stuff has happened so you can look back at my other question I posted. so I'll start from the beginning. First it all starts that my girlfriends best friend is her ex and everything was going OK for about five months. All until she started to act different so before you know it she breaks up with me she had her reasons and so forth I was really hurt when she broke up with me because I had no idea and was caught off guard. So a month goes from the break up to when we got back together so we are all happy that we are back together and all that stuff. But I would say about two weeks into us getting back she tells me that she kissed her best friend (her ex) because in the time that we we're broken up her and her best friend we thinking about getting back together. So we talked about it, it was just a kiss so I asked her if she can't see him that often and she agreed to my request. OK so its two months from that incident and we were doing fine. Until she laid the real deal on me and told me that when she broke up with me that first time she slept with her best friend before she broke up with me and she felt mostly guilty for it and had to break up with me. So I am shocked and I had to have time to myself. So I decided I would take her back only under one condition that she has to break all contact with her best friend. So she agreed to my request again. So now its four months since that incident of telling me that crap and one of her friends got into a car accident and she went to the hospital, but I knew that her Ex was going to be there because the two of them have a mutual friendship with the person that got into a accident. So she told me that her ex was making it all weird and stuff and when she got back from the hospital she was being weird probably because of her ex so I noticed that she was texting someone all night and I took a glance and realized it was her ex that she was texting so I confronted her the next day about it and she told me that she didn’t want him to hate her and yeah. So I was a little iffy about the whole thing. Then I realize that she began to act differently to me so I asked what's the matter and she tells me that she wants to make it "ok" between her and her ex. And of course I don’t want that so I didn't care what she does because I was hoping that she would figure out that I was really upset about her wanting to talk to him again. So I waited back then she went and told him that she wanted to talk and what do you know she talked to him to four o'clock in the morning and I told her to talk to me after she was done talking to him. So I was really hurt and upset with the whole thing that she completely ignored my request of not talking to him and totally disrespecting my decision about them. So I had to break up with her because of her wanting to bring him back in her life.
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So that’s what I'm going through right now I was hoping that she would drop him again and go for me, but she says she can't because she doesn’t want to abandon him again so she won't let go of him. and I feel like I can't accept that.
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I want her back so I'm actually considering of going back because of how I feel about her. So I'm probably not explaining it all that well, but it all comes down to that I have to trust her that nothing will happen again and I do.
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but it just the fact that I have to be reminded that's "him" the guy you cheated with on me. And I'm suppose to accept it? She says they would only hang out barely and yeah
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I don’t know it just seems like I'm being manipulated here and I don’t know what to do so any help would be fine, please
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oh yeah she wants to get back with me but she won't do my request to let him go because of my feeling to what they did to me. so what she is doing is that if I want her back she wants me to do what she wants in order for us to get back together.
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i just don't think its fair to me that she want me to be ok with her being friends again with her ex after I asked her not to have any contact with him. she only gave me four months when I asked her not to do that, but she has him back in her life again.
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oh yeah she told me that she would hang out with him on special occasions are like his b-day which was two days ago and yeah. so I'm pretty sure that she went to his b-day thing or something, got him a gift and all that. so I just don't think she gets it
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