She came on the very last day of the two weeks with a van her new boyfriend, 3 other guys and the babysitter/woman she been staying with,
I still love her and even though I know how much hurt and damage she has done I just can't forget
I feel so sorry for you right now. Pay attention to how this question is written. You are not in a good state of mind @ all. This woman has taken you for literally everything you have. She has even taken your sanity & you're still ready to go back for me. Do you enjoy being used, misused, mistreated, stomped on, dogged, taken & broken? Pay close attention to the question that you just posed. There has got to be some way deeper issues going on if you would so desire to be with someone who has done all of this. This is completely abnormal. There comes a point in relationships where you are no longer getting played but YOU ARE PLAYING YOURSELF. If a woman doesn't love her child, how the hell can she love you? I can almost guarantee with 100% certainty that this woman has some form of drug or substance abuse problem. I would almost be inclined to believe that you do as well because no one would choose to live on this level dysfunction and then beg, plead & cry for more when it goes away. This time of self loathing is borderline suicidal. If you do not get some help (and fast) worse things are inevitably coming to you. I know this sounds mean & cruel & maybe even malicious but I look @ your post as a cry for help. Something bigger is going on & I do not know what it is but sometimes blatant truths are all that we respond to. I am going to say a word of prayer for you before I turn in to bed tonight. Good luck to you and God bless and I pray that God touches your mind and heart in such a way to give you the strength you need to move forward with a happier, more positive & productive life.
Thank you for your comment, I am much happier and better now than ever before oh and I do not use drugs or any other such substance, when you think your in love you often do things that are abnormal and and far from reality, however with time I have learnt and moved on and thank you for your support and words
This chic has a LOT of issues and quite frankly I don't think she deserves you. Based on what you wrote, you treated her and her son like gold and you obviously are an extremely generous & caring man. I think she took advantage of your good nature and took you for granted. This is just my opinion. She sounds toxic and has no grounding at all. If she cannot do that much for herself or her child, then she sure as hell cannot do it for you. Moreover, I don't think she is mature enough for a serious relationship because she just goes from guy to guy.
I think she is angry that you took action and actually put her in her place. She is in denial and is turning her anger against you instead of herself. After all, she is responsible for her demeanor and decisions, not you. As I said, she has a lot of growing to do as an individual.
I know you are probably very hurt, let down and disappointed. I am sure you needed to dig deep within yourself to walk away and say enough is enough. You are doing the right thing for yourself, your heart and mental health. You are worthy of a woman who will appreciate you for the gem you are. Guys like you are RARE and believe me, I know women who would kill for a man like you. I know this is the furtherest thing from your mind but perhaps it will give you hope for my gender.
Good luck.
Thanks for your comment, Do you think she will regret it? right now her friends that she went to stay with hate her for how she has treated her son, she has got no one left but her new boyfriend and has left town, but wanted to come back, do you think she will ever realize the wrong she did? and make amends? do you think she thinks of me and what we shared?
I will be perfectly honest with you that I cannot be sure. I think it's natural she will think about you, what you shared and everything you did for her. That happens when you date someone and the relationship ends. However, the piece you need to remember is that retaining the memory of the relationship is one thing. It's another for her to realize she needs to grow up, be a woman and mother and appreciate a good man in front of her. THAT is what I don't think she will be able to do.
She sounds very selfish and immature. I'm not sure her redeeming qualities that's kept you coming back for more. She was willing to take your generous support -- and unfortunately the world is full of people (men and women) who will take advantage of someone else.
Cut your losses and run.
le sigh, you got walked over son and it's your own fault from the moment you started paying for her
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