Coming from someone who has been in a “toxic” friendship for 15 years, she will likely not drop her. You’re seeing the bad things and you are not wrong for that, her friend sounds like a jerk. But she is seeing that along with all the good things the friend brings and their history. My friend is toxic as all hell and boy crazy, we’ve fought and ended our friendship more than once, but when she’s good she’s really good, and that complicates it. However their friendship should not impose on your relationship, and if she won’t drop the friend then maybe you should drop her. Sorry that’s kind of the only way. I’ve lost 3 relationships because of my friend.
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Unfortunately you can't help your girlfriend If she's being a twat and can't see the friend being toxic. Sometimes it's better to walk away.
Your girlfriend needs lot more friends. Losers with no friends are pried upon by narcissists. Your girlfriend is probably prone to sweet talk. Tell her what she wants to hear. Make her dream even if its an illusion. Thats what keeping her with her manipulative friend.
Just have to leave. No point been the saviour never really works for people like that, they warp themselves into wanting that toxic relation.
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That should be a huge red flag for your girlfriend to stop being friends with her
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It’s always the boyfriend that can tell how toxic the friend is
Well maybe she just has hard time letting go of stuff
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