For example, 2 weeks ago we were playing a video game together and she comments on a random player's username saying “oh I like his username it’s funny”. Trying to make a joke, I say “oh well if you love his username then you should go be with him since you seem so in love with him” obviously I don’t want her to be with him but she took it the wrong way. She got upset and I responded with “it’s just a joke. Anyone with common sense would understand “ I don’t understand why she is getting upset for these small jokes of mine.
I also sometimes also call her “crazy” as a good thing and she got upset about it. Like “Oh babe you’re so crazy” Honestly I call everything and everyone crazy, and I’m not meaning it in a bad way.
I tell my girlfriend that she just needs to chill out because our relationship won’t work if she doesn’t. She says that I don't validate her feelings but she's taking these jokes of mine too far. What do i do?