What do you think are the top 3-5 causes of a break up or divorce?

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wolfcat87 · Accepted Answer

Differences on how to handle finances
Bad communication
Growing apart, or hidden flaws beginning to show up later
Cheating
Abuse

I might add on not understanding what marriage is or how it should work in cases of divorce.

Lisia · Accepted Answer

unfaithfulness, growing apart, abuse, lack of respect, too many arguments

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

I really don't know... but I would say that  growing up apart rather than growing up together  in the relationship is one... and the other is  cheating my guess is these two might be up there

MiddleAgedClimbee · Accepted Answer

I think it starts with not having an interest in your partner/bad communication and spirals out of control from there. Usually some sort of domino effect would be my expectation

Orangekiss · Answer

I think the biggest is financial problems. After an expensive wedding and maybe buying a house they can't pay the bills. And it snowballs from there.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Stress Selfishness Not investing in time together... that be communications as well.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Just from what I see in the Family Courts:

1. Infidelity
2. Money issues
3. Lack of compatibility - because they went by "feelings" rather than logic.
4. One or the other trying to control everything.
5. In-laws

electromagnetic · Answer

Cheating, alcoholism and drug abuse, and maybe financial strains

DizzyDesii · Answer

Cheating, Physical Abuse, Gold Digging, Substance Abuse, Family Interfering

Simslover92 · Answer

Cheating  Finances  Spark Gone/Lack of Intimacy

Anonymous · Answer

Lack of commitment.

Paul09 · Answer

Selfishness, Laziness, greed , cowards, weak minded, zero self control, losing interest in each other, life changes, not working on the relationship.. etc.

JacobJordan · Answer

Finances, lack of intimacy, lack of communication, arguing, Infidelity.

boobliker · Answer

they stop talking to each other and talk to everyone else,

Likes2drive · Answer

Infedelity, financial problems and just fall out of love with each other

CaesarV · Answer

1. Lying. 2. Unrealistic goals. 3. Passiveness. 4. Immaturity.

Socaljp · Answer

Infidelity fighting, name calling, inability to communicate effectively, disrespect, finances, lack of satisfying sex other

mhall84 · Answer

1) Cheating / Infidelity 2) Internet / Porn/ Cam Sites 3) Lack of sex 4) Addiction 5) Financial

katiesmuff · Answer

Cheating, money, beatings, are three major causes.

AngelLily · Answer

The top one is cheating

Fireguy17 · Answer

infidelity, money, just grew apart

ThrillSeeker01 · Answer

Lack of trust. Lack of honesty. Lack of loyalty

Kelly6 · Answer

Cheating abuse Lack of Intimacy

DARKCLOUD1945X · Answer

CHEATING, DRINKING AND DRUGS ----- LYING

Comeon18 · Answer

Just one word: Infidelity

Anonymous · Answer

It's men's fault.

Pete671 · Answer

Women's greed,,,

OddBeMe · Answer

No ass

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