How I know its the one?

[MeridenalHoney]

I love my boyfriend

He treats me very good, cares for me

But i dont trust him

How can i break up with him?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo this is tough. On one hand, if he treats you good and you love him, that's like the real deal right? But no trust is a big issue too.

Here's what I'd do. You gotta be straight up with him about how you're feeling. Have a serious convo and be like "Look, I care about you but I just don't feel like I can trust you fully." See what he says to that.

Maybe there's stuff you can work on together to build trust over time, if you both really want it to work. Set some clear boundaries and expectations. Like you'll be more open with each other and he proves he's faithful, day by day.

But also let him know you might still break up if things don't change. It's not fair to you otherwise. Then it's on him to step up and show he's trustworthy boyfriend material. Give it some time to see if it improves.

If after trying all that you still just can't shake the doubt, then yeah maybe breaking up is what's best for you. Don't wanna waste your time on someone who doesn't make you feel secure, feel me? Gotta value yourself too.

Hope this helps! Just be straight with him and do what feels right for you in the end.