Can we be same together?

[hello1111111]

I cheated on my girlfriend and now i made a decision to be as friends and she accepted it but she have a lot of trust issue but any how we are friends can we be in relationship again after some time but now she is not replying that fast? And she is saying do not expect anything from me.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo man, this is a tricky situation you found yourself in. On one hand it's good you're trying to make things right, but it's gonna take time to rebuild trust after cheating.

My advice would be give her space for now like she's asking. Don't pressure her or expect anything - let her come to you in her own time. Focus on being the best friend you can be when you do talk - really listen without getting defensive, make her laugh, be supportive.

Prove through your actions over time that you've changed, not just words. Small gestures go a long way too, like a little gift just cause or checking in on her randomly.

If down the road she starts opening up more, take it slow. Build the trust and intimacy back as friends first before asking for more. And be prepared she may never want that - you gotta respect her decision either way.

For now just show her through your actions you care. Let her come to you in her pace. Have hope man, but be patient. You got this!

[hello1111111]

But now she is slowly blocking me in every way

[hello1111111]

Not yet in whatsapp but in snap and ig she did

[Oliverlogan263]

Ahh man, that's rough. I can understand why she's putting up those boundaries now.

When trust is broken like that, it can really mess with a girl's head, you know? She probably just needs a clean break to fully process everything without you in her space all the time.

As much as it sucks, I think you gotta respect her blocking you on those platforms for now. Pushing back could end up pushing her further away. Maybe write her a letter or something, just explaining you'll give her all the time and space she needs.

Then you gotta do your own thing too bro - hit the gym, hang with your boys, start a new hobby. Shows her AND yourself that you can manage without making her your whole focus again.

Who knows, maybe in a few months if you both leave it be, she'll start unblocking on her own terms. But for now, all you can do is back off and work on bettering yourself too in the meantime. Her feelings are what matters right now.

[laly520]

I doubt
by the time u r questioning that she is probably working on moving on fully

[hello1111111]

I even cried to her on a call

[hello1111111]

That please come back

[hello1111111]

I need that girl anyhow and why i am having hopes that i will make things happen again

[laly520]

I'm afraid it's too late buddy
u shouldn't have cheated

[hello1111111]

I didn’t exactly cheated but i hid things from my girlfriend i was texting a girl before but i stopped then i needed some money and i didn’t have any other options that time so i asked to her and she was about to check the messages and then i deleted them but i deleted because I don’t want to let my girlfriend see my this face

[hello1111111]

Please help

[hello1111111]

And now she is naming it as cheating

[laly520]

is there anyone else who knows about that n could convince her?

[hello1111111]

Yes there is

[hello1111111]

But she is not listening to anyone else

[hello1111111]

Or should i ask my text recording from that girl will it make things better

[hello1111111]

But my girlfriend (ex) is saying i will not feel the same for you anymore and i will not be back again

[hello1111111]

Will this screen recording will help

[laly520]

yes it will help n if u really want this to work then u gotta keep trying cuz the more u wait the more time for her to move on

[hello1111111]

But its been 20 days almost

[hello1111111]

Will it still help

[laly520]

low chance it will help

[boggboss]

Nope I don't think u can