Are we together?

[Anonymous]

So I've been sleeping with this guy for awhile now, months actually, and I developed feelings for him. I confessed them got rejected, told he didn't see us lasting long together as a couple, hurt like hell but I accepted his answer at the time (kinda) and just continued our friend with benefits relationship. After some time I eventually kinda got tired of it. Tired of pushing my feelings aside and acting like we have is fine because it wasn't because I wanted more. I wanted to be more than just some friend he slept with. So I told him how I felt and that I felt that is was for our best interest that I kinda dip because I wouldn't be able to move on with him being involved in my life especially considering I was creating false hope for myself, and he begged me to come over. We slept together 😩 and he told me he isn't rejecting me anymore. So are we a thing now or did I just swooped into back into the circle of friends with benefits again?

[boggboss]

My money is in him wanting to continue the sex so he said anything to keep u around otherwise u wouldn't be confused still

[Asker]

You're money was right because after paying his rent I asked him if we was a couple and he told me that he felt the relationship was forced and he didn't want to say nothing because he didn't know how I would react. But he didn't feel forced when he took my money and lead me on. Sucks but guess I'm glad at least I know now.

[LazerBean]

He told you what you wanted to hear.

[Asker]

He did so I would be stupid enough to pay for his phone bill and rent. Guess I really was the stupid one in this situation

[Wise4myage]

Only time will tell, but be cautious.

[Asker]

I definitely have my guard up because I don't want to get hurt, you know? I've been single for four years and this is the first person I actually considered wanting to be inside a relationship with but apart me is questioning does he really want to be with me or for the benefits I offer him because I have helped him out a lot.

[Wise4myage]

That makes sense.