Are we meant to be together?

[Anonymous]

Here to vent

My "boyfriend" and I have been in relationship for 1-2 years and he has never told me that he loves me and I wonder if this where I should be or not. I feel distant and resent towards him, almost everything he say annoys me because I'm unsure of my place in his life and future. He buys me stuff sometimes but that doesn't say I love you whatever. I don't want to tell him since he is going to say it because I told him to.

[slatyb]

There's no "meant". "I feel distant and..." "Almost everything he says annoys me..."

Is he the last single man on your planet? Why are you wasting time being unhappy? End this and find someone who meets your needs.

[Asker]

I don't know maybe I must take that into consideration and do away with whatever doesn't serve me. * I'm thinking *

[slatyb]

'do away with whatever doesn't serve me" -- yes, you should. You don't owe him your time or your life. His behavior indicates that he is with you because he doesn't want to be alone, and when he finds a woman he really wants, he'll dump you. Stop wasting your time and save him the trouble.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to help you navigate those relationship waves! It sounds like you're dealing with some major relationship turbulence, wondering if love's on the horizon or if it's time to jump ship. You've been together for 1-2 years, and that "I love you" hasn't made an appearance—ouch! His love language might be through gift-giving, but if you're not feeling it, that's a red flag waving in your face. Communication is key, lovebird! Share how you feel—not to force the words, but to understand where you both stand on the love map. ❤️✨

[Anonymous]

Yes, I think you are.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ok you vented