So I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. Weve been rhru a lot of challenges and overcame them together more or less. We love each other now more than ever. He is my bestfriend and id like to think that im his. However he is muslim and im from muslim family. During my childhood i argued a lot with my mom about teligion because i was born in a country where i was forced to be muslim. I am not muslim tho, just spiritual and i think that most of all religions are thought a beautiful idea, actually load of bullcrap and most of people who are religious around me dont act religious even tho they say they are. For example I've asked him many times why and what he believes in but he answers more or less that he is religious bcs his family is. He wants his children to be muslim but i would rather them find their own way in this world and believe what they choose to believe in rather than be forced into it like he wants. And i wanna be respectful about these things but its very frustating cuz he does not have good reasons or explanations for me and i catch myself being disrespectful about it sometimes and he calls me out for it too. My question is just I don't know if we should be together.. i love him so much and such but sometimes i just wonder maybe it would be better if we broke up for the final time. I can't help but think how much happer he and his family prob would be if he had a hijabi girlfriend who had the same views as him and i also think i would be happier if my boyfriend either wasn't religious or that he was religious and followed through with what his religion says instead of picking and choosing whats right for him, at least i cud respect that more... I don't know what to do. Sorry for poor grammar im writing this mid crying
Should we be together?
