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My boyfriend and I have been together for just over two months now, but early on in our relationship he thought I was lying to him and stopped all contact with me for 2 weeks. I text and called him constantly over those 2 weeks to see what was up and if we had broken up or not but never got an answer. I gave him the option of ending things at least 20 times over this period because I just hated how I felt, however he never did it.
Eventually when I managed to talk to him and sort things out, it seemed everything was back on track for the first few days.
Now though, it's not like it use to be. I only ever see him once a week when before I saw him at least 3 times a week. He use to txt me everyday but now I'd be lucky to hear from him at least once a day.
I still txt him as I did before and it seems I'm the only one making the effort to see him and talk to him. I just need to know where to go from here because even though I like him and want a future with him, I hate all this uncertainty.
Eventually when I managed to talk to him and sort things out, it seemed everything was back on track for the first few days.
Now though, it's not like it use to be. I only ever see him once a week when before I saw him at least 3 times a week. He use to txt me everyday but now I'd be lucky to hear from him at least once a day.
I still txt him as I did before and it seems I'm the only one making the effort to see him and talk to him. I just need to know where to go from here because even though I like him and want a future with him, I hate all this uncertainty.
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I text him yesterday saying we need to talk either in person or on the phone, but it's a conversation we have to have. He text back straight away saying he hoped what I had to tell him wasn't bad and that he was worried. Are we still in a relationship?
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When there's little trust, it can be difficult to go back to the way things were before, whether it's justified or not, all you can do is give him a little time, but past that, the relationship MIGHT be damaged beyond something that can be repaired soon, and it may need to end.
If it's his thing, where you were being truthful but he didn't believe it, you should know that there can be all sorts of reasons why he doesn't trust. It could be just you, or it could be that you're at the unfortunate side of something that happened to him a while ago. If he lets you know this, you can choose to leave, or give him a little time, because it may not be YOU, but the situation, and in this case, he needs to look at the issues surrounding that, and work on it.
Of course, if you were doing things that reasonably made him think you were untrustworthy (even if you WERE trustworthy), you also might need to look at that, and fix that aspect of the relationship first.
If not, you still need to talk things out more and see if there's a chance at a solution that will create a healthier relationship. If not, you both need to stop dating. It's not healthy for either one of you to keep up a relationship where one of you isn't being trusted.
You sound like a great person, But let me give you a little advice, there are to many men out there that would love to talk to you and spend time with you. Let him go and find someone that thinks that you are worth every second that they are with you!
Sound like you may still be in a relationship to me,maybe I was wrong, maybe you should sit down and have a long talk with each other and figure out what is going on between the to of you.
That's what I thought, but everyone tells me that I shouldn't even give him the time of day and he hasn't tried to contact me since, so who knows :(