When the wife and I met and started dating we were swingers. We also took part in the Hotwife Lifestyle. Well after about 10 years she said she doesn’t want to do that anymore. I suggested Hotwife interactions only and she’s just not interested. It was such a problem I went to counseling. The female counselor said if was something we did pre marriage then she should have known it was part of the foundation. Obviously I do not want to force her to do anything she truly does not enjoy, so I suggested an open relationship so I could enjoy it, however she said no. Even the counselor said that would be fair, but she didn’t want to agree. She finally admitted it wasn’t something she liked in the first place and just did it for me. I feel like now I am forced to choose between breaking up or living in a relationship that I really did not sign up for and was deceived. It also was not just about the acts, it was about adult socials and clubs and such, all that is totally gone from the relationship. I would be curious to hear others take on this. Thanks in advance for your input.
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Swing and Hotwife Relationship?
