Is it normal to do this?

[Anonymous]

After every fight…my boyfriend he acts like nothing happened. No apologies, after talk or anything and it's never a petty fight it's a terrible fight where terrible stuff gets said.

[rosemilk]

no that's not normal. the fights are not resolved, he didn't learn anything, and it'll happen again because it wasn't closed.

you need to ask for an apology and tell him you feel like the argument was never resolved and is still open because no apologies were made and that means that there is no effort to change (whatever the fight was about)

[Anonymous]

It's not necessarily normal or healthy for someone to act like nothing happened after a serious fight, especially if hurtful things were said. Open communication and resolution are important in any relationship. It might be helpful to talk to your boyfriend about how you feel and express the need for acknowledgment and resolution after arguments.

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s normal as guys generally look forward while I learned girls spend more time analyzing the past.


However for a healthy relationship is takes work. Bring up the fight, let him know how you felt and discuss how to be better. If you don’t you will just fight again

[slatyb]

No, it's not normal. Run away! Run away! This is the behavior of a narcissist. They will make you miserable. I know, I married one.

[laly520]

some do it
before having an anger outburst