Is it normal to?

Question

Care about how many Instagram followers you have

Still want more people to spend time with even though you have a best friend and a girlfriend

Have trouble making new friends at 25

Not wanna drive at 25

This isn't about me by the way

menina · Accepted Answer

Care about how many Instagram followers you have? - It's not normal to me because I don't have Instagram. But if I did, I wouldn't be worried about it. I wouldn't be trying to become an Influencer.

Still want more people to spend time with even though you have a best friend and a girlfriend? - Yes, of course it is. You might want to spend more time with your family or making more friends.

Have trouble making new friends at 25? - Some people have an easier time making friends than others. So I would say that this is also normal.

Not wanna drive at 25? - I didn't drive when I was 25 and I still don't drive. Many people who are older than me don't drive. But then again, I'm not in the United States. I've heard that most people drive there. So yes, I see nothing wrong with not wanting to drive.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think almost all of these are normal, the one about the Instagram followers thing I wouldn’t say is normal but sadly it’s getting pretty common.

We’re social creatures though, so it’s normal for us to want to spend time with more people other than our “regulars”. It’s also definitely more difficult making new friends as an adult, I can relate. I do meet people but it’s not as easy developing a deep friendship at an older age - same people just seem to have the natural ability to make new friends left and right tho. Not wanting to drive is also normal, my sister (27) never owned a car bcs she couldn’t bother with driving, she just relies on public transport. It doesn’t make sense to own a car if you live in a big city, parking’s crazy expensive and don’t get me started on the traffic…