My ex keeps telling me how happy and relaxed he is. And yet won't leave me alone and keeps sending me emotionally abusive texts calling me every name under the book. (No one did any cheating or anything like that).
When I say back to the messages that he doesn't sound happy he keeps saying how happy and relaxed he is and yet rages insults at me. He says in one breath he will never speak to me again and im a cunt and will block me. Then a week later rages at me.
Why is he doing this?
Sounds to me like he has mixed feelings about it and lacks the maturity to deal with those mixed feelings.
Given the negative comments he makes, I would suggest blocking his number, erasing it from your phone, remove the thoughts and bad memories of him, and move on to someone who loves you and supports you.
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How odd. In more ways than one, to claim you did something you didn't do then contact you when he doesn't like you?
Maybe he some how still does like you, but before blocking, you should ask him if you hate me, then why contact me all the time?
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Dang girl, your ex is a total loser for treating you like that. Who does he think he is sending abusive messages and insulting you? Seems like he's just trying to mess with your head since he's your ex.
Some guys can't stand seeing their ex being happy and living their best life without them. So he lashes out with his lame insults hoping to get a reaction. Don't give him the satisfaction!
The best thing to do is block and delete him on everything so you don't have to see his stupid messages anymore. You don't need that toxic crap dragging you down.
Anyone who calls their ex names is super immature. Just focus on you - hang with your friends, do your hobbies, hit the gym, whatever makes you happy! Live well and he'll realize what a fool he is.
You're way better off without him. Don't waste another second thinking about what that loser says. His words mean nothing - you're amazing sis! Keep shinning without letting him dim your light.Just block him on everything, problem solved.
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