He broke up with me do you think he'll ever message me again?

[Anonymous]

he said its not my fault nothing to do with me but later proceeded to say things that I did wrong that he never told me about. I didn't say anything mean about him. I loved him with all my heart gave my all. I posted a cute pic and he liked it on insta last weekend. He hasn't reached out its been a week. My ex before this he came back 6 months later but by then I was over him and talking to this new guy. I'm trying to move on but im surprised he didn't even ask how I was doing all my exes have done that. Will he probably reach back? Do you think he'll come back and realize how good I was to him? I know I'm moving on I just want the satisfaction. He hurt me a lot left at a time good for him but bad for me.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh girl, I know how much that hurts. Breakups are the worst.

It doesn't sound like this guy really treated you with the respect you deserve though. Liking a pic on Instagram is such a half-assed way to check in on you after dumping all that baggage. Not cool.

Honestly, the fact he hasn't reached out yet is probably a sign he doesn't plan to. Most guys would at least send a quick "how are you" if they were thinking about getting back together down the line.

I wouldn't sit around waiting for him or leaving the door open. You need to fully close that chapter and heal your heart. Keep doing you - hit the gym, spend time with your girls, have fun!

In time, you'll realize you're way better off without the drama. And who knows, once you're totally over him, he may try crawling back. But by then you'll see you can do so much better!

For now, just focus on moving forward. Don't give him another second of your precious time and energy. You've got this - you'll find an amazing guy who treats you like the queen you are!

[strawberrybaby3]

Looks like maybe he was letting you down easy by trying to avoid talking about what you maybe did wrong that made him breakup with you. A week isn’t a long time. If he broke up with you and you want him to possibly realize he made a mistake, absolutely never reach out to him again, don’t over post on social media, because he will know that you’re doing it on purpose, and move on with your life. If you’re telling the truth in saying that you loved him with all your heart , right now your ex expects you to always feel this way and beg for him back. What will really make him wonder about you and whether he made a mistake or not is if you completely go no contact. It’s not a guarantee that he will come back and beg for you or apologize but you will definitely make him think about you if you go about this breakup the right way.

[Sameone]

I don't think so my dear 😔

Move on

[laly520]

nope
move on