Do you ever regret breaking up with someone?

[kareenakapur]

my man broke up with me 2 weeks out of the blue : (. I thought things were going well. I feel sick. I just wonder if he will come back and regret his decision. all I gave him was love. even when he broke up with me I played him "enchanted" by Taylor swift. I loved him. :(

[sawno]

I have never broken up, if she gets me to ask her to be her girlfriend I truly mean that I want to spend the rest of my life with her. So far no girl has changed enough during the relationship to where I wanted to leave. I am as loyal as they come.

[Vesuvius87]

Nope, I don't regret breaking up with ex boyfriend at all. In fact I've blocked him on all social medias too. No regrets.

Chances are if it leads to a break-up, it means that's not the person you were ever meant to be with. Exes are exes for a reason.

[laly520]

move on n focus on urself
as for me, never regretted it cuz it wasn't my fault that it ended in past

[kareenakapur]

he told me it wasn't anything I did and I told him I needed more concrete information. He used the same thing for his ex and me to break up with us.

[laly520]

he is a player then
played u both then left moving to the next victim
there is a pattern in here

[kareenakapur]

said he just randomly had a bad gut feeling same way with his ex and then he extended things with her and it hurt her even more. but then he still extended things with me for 4 months. im so sad. I gave him so much love and support. He said I talked over him sometimes. Is that enough to break up with someone for?

[laly520]

he is lowkey lying n gaslighting u into thinking his excuses r valid

[kareenakapur]

and he said we have different taste in music he likes indie and im a r&b pop girl. and he liked this movie so I decided to watch it on my own. It had a sad ending and I told him I didn't like the movie and skipped the sad parts bc at that time I wanted a happy romantic movie. and he was like saying how he thinks bc of that that we have a different values.

[laly520]

he is legit making dumb excuses

[kareenakapur]

like I wouldn't let him break up with me wanted concrete stuff and all his concrete stuff was such small things in my head.

[kareenakapur]

do you actually think so or are you just trynna make me happy :( bc its working

[kareenakapur]

I asked him if he meant everything he said last night and he said yes. I sent a message and then unsent it bc It sounded clingy. And he said what did you unsend? And I never replied : ( not worth it right?

[kareenakapur]

went out with my friends took a cute pic and he liked my insta post that was the last of our encounter so far

[laly520]

I am telling u what I thought would be the truth which mostly likely is the case for such player u used to date
u seem like a loving good girl
u gotta be more careful next time
players n twisted guys do target their victims

[kareenakapur]

thank you 😢 im trynna be more careful. I thought he was a good guy

[laly520]

its fine
mistakes happens, on good side u gained more experience
learn from it n cheer up!

[MrOracle]

No, but I don't make impulsive decisions about relationships. She would know very well that I had some serious problems with her before a breakup happened.

[kareenakapur]

it was impulsive :(

[MrOracle]

Sounds like it was...

[NathanDavis]

not really, no...

they were mutual and well thought decisions we made, and it was for the best of us... nothing to regret about that (=

[kareenakapur]

it wasn't mutual. I still liked him.

[NathanDavis]

well... then why did you?

[kareenakapur]

he broke up with me

[kareenakapur]

he kept saying Im not good at goodbyes and im like then why are you doing this

[NathanDavis]

how long were the the two of you together...

[kareenakapur]

4 months he led me on

[NathanDavis]

well... if he was playing with you, then it is for the best (=

[BonzoInBitburg]

I've never once regretted breaking up with someone

[exitseven]

not really. Although when I broke up with somebody that I went with for 4 years I wondered if I made a mistake. It turns out I did the right thing.

[Anonymous]

Nope. If it was so necessary that I had to end it then I can promise I won't regret it. I might regret some of the things that I might question precipitated the need to end it. But not the actual breakup.

[jasonjk]

Whoever comea in your life has to go at some point. So take it easy , move on and think his life is over so he is gone.

[KrakenAttackin]

Men normally put up with a lot before they break up with a woman. If he broke up with you he is likely gone.

[Jay-_-]

I do, but I don't. Mixed emotions, I know I did the right thing tho

[strateguy632]

never, i had reasons so good riddance.

[Bklynbadboy12]

But why did he do that

[kareenakapur]

he said he wanted to talk longer but that he'd be leading me on. that he really likes me but like then later said sometimes I talk over him. he told me this awhile ago that it upset him and I completely changed but then I guess I did it again and so I was like why didn't you tell me. he said you dont ask someone to do things twice.

[kareenakapur]

kept saying ill find better etc and hope I dont meet any bad guys etc

[Bklynbadboy12]

Wow! He's an asshole. But he did you a huge favor by leaving you

[kareenakapur]

is he an asshole or did I just mess up by repeating my mistakes. he said its not me or him but it feels like he's blaming me. then later trying to make me feel better like ur too hot for me

[Bklynbadboy12]

It him cause if you love someone you work through it. Nobody is perfect we all make mistakes. I'm sure he's made some too

[Slim57]

Nope not one

[riverrat3]

Nope

[eagle1951]

yeah