Spouse put air fryer basket on the counter I am worried the counter will melt we had a huge huge fight about it?

I heard that air fryers definitely melt counters. i have forbade spouse from using the counter so she used the microwave as a counter. That could melt too. spouse says I have been doing it this way for a year and you never said a word and nothing happened. lost my phone. My spouse found it and told me where it was. I think Spouse hid phone on purpose. Which started another fight. Spouse ended up sleeping in the car. then I woke up to ask why the landline was off the hook. I know spouse did it. Even though spouse doesn't use the landline

I ordered spouse stuff to apologize and they were like leave me the fuck alone until you can stop yelling. Why is our marriage so hard is it betshe is a Sagittarius and I am a pisces

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She thinks I act drunk
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She also feels I interrogate him. I don't mean to. I just want to see if she is lying
Spouse put air fryer basket on the counter I am worried the counter will melt we had a huge huge fight about it?
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