What would you think if your ex…?

[LostandFound__x]

Your ex from two years ago randomly unblocked you and missed call you.

My friend took my phone and did that to my ex today. She said she was helping me get back with him because she thinks he’s right for me. 🙂

I’m stubborn as hell and my love life is basically non-existent at the moment. So I’m not sure how to feel.

Updates

10 mo

You guys I really do love him but the relationship was toxic because we were both toxic and I don’t want to open that door again. But I can’t help but wonder what he thinks when my name popped up on his phone.

[Saiesh30]

I'm not sure what exactly to advise you coz neither I know your friend and not your ex.
Something that should form a basis of your judgement should be introspecting a little as to what happened in the past that led to the break up.
If now you're able to think that it was something immature and something that could have been fixed without harming your self respect then it's worth it. You should give it a go.
If not, then it's not wise to step into something again which have already hurt you in the past.
A reality of life is people hardly change.

[LostandFound__x]

Yeah I don’t want to get back with him to be honest.

[Saiesh30]

Then it's not worth it. You should be comfortable first and foremost. Everything else comes second.

[LostandFound__x]

Yeah

[lightbulb27]

remember... girls just wanna have fun...

but that was bad behavior...

I'd think they were reminiscing... and she put you in a bad spot. oh well, lets see how crafty you are... cause nothing has changed unless one of you has "evolved"... and the same problems will happen again.

[IslaTheWitch]

lol...

the first thing is... my friends don't try to interfere in my private life... they often share their opinions but that's all, they treat me as I am, the grown-up, independent person, who can make own decisions and bear the consequences...

the second thing is I don't break up on the whim... if we are not together... there is nothing to return to... so even if my ex contacted me (that happens from time to time), we could have a nice conversation and nothing more... and we both know it

[DishLady]

Personally, I’ve had limited exes so I’d say it depends on the guy in question. Only one or two guys from my past would be interesting to chat with today — but neither of them were considered “exes” since we never formally dated. Actual exes are exes for a reason. Don’t stir that cauldron.

[Zenpanda]

I've never been blocked by an ex, I'm still friends with all of them.
So I can't really say.
I do think that's a weird thing for your friend to do.

[LostandFound__x]

She was trying to help but I think she’s stupid

[Danny_dan92]

I would immediately think she misses me. And this has happened multiple times so from experience I know that’s what causes it

[LostandFound__x]

I always miss him but it was my friend! Lol

[Danny_dan92]

There’s some similarities

[LostandFound__x]

What are the similarities?

[Danny_dan92]

Guys and girls both hit up their ex’s for the same reasons

[LostandFound__x]

Yeah except it wasn’t me it was my friend 😭 and now he thinks it’s me lol

[Danny_dan92]

Oh wow, your friend is trying to fuck your ex? Not a good friend lol

[LostandFound__x]

She did it “for me” 🥲

[Danny_dan92]

Well then maybe you should get back with him

[LostandFound__x]

I don’t know lol

[Danny_dan92]

I think I know where you’re coming from.

I personally have an ex that she calls me every once in a while and she shows signs of wanting to get back together by asking me questions to see what’s new and to see if I’m up for meeting up to grab some lunch.

But given what happened I never follow through. All I do is answer her calls and talk on the phone. Nothing more.

Sounds like it’s the same for you, sounds like this dude did you wrong and there’s still some feelings there however the trauma makes you keep your distance

[LostandFound__x]

Yes exactly! I am always going to have feelings for him and I told my friend he’s my biggest love.

But I’m too scared to go back there because I don’t want to get hurt again. And it’s because I care for him so much it will hurt so much.

I’ll never hate him and I want to see him happy always. Even if it’s with someone else.

[Danny_dan92]

Yep. It’s an odd feeling forsure. Because you’re legit conflicted. A part of you wants to be back together with the person but immediately you’re reminded of what happened and you then refuse to entertain the idea of getting back together. It happens.

If it makes you feel any better, just do what I do. Never reach out to the ex, but talk to them when they talk to you. And agree to meet up with em even though you aren’t 😂

This will also definitely work for you cause the genders are flipped in your case.

It’s a matter of time until my ex moves on after she catches on that I’m just bullshitting her.

[LostandFound__x]

Hahah thanks and good luck with that

[Danny_dan92]

I don’t need luck lol given what happened I have leverage and will never relinquish it

[LostandFound__x]

Haha okay

[Jay-_-]

One of my exes called me but it wasn't the same case as yours when I saw her name pop up I was like oh lord no 😭

[LostandFound__x]

Looool why?

Maybe that’s how my ex reacted 🤣

[Jay-_-]

I don't know where to start to be honest😭😅

[LostandFound__x]

Haha I’m sure he didn’t. I know what he’s like and how we felt with each other

[Jay-_-]

Exactly, I don't think my situation was the same case as yours. For me it was more like, I don't ever plan on going back, I don't know how to explain what happened.

[Jay-_-]

And you say you loved him/love him.

[Jay-_-]

I can tell you how it is to see a name you want to see tho

[Jay-_-]

If he still has feelings for you then he probably had butterflies 🦋🫠

[LostandFound__x]

Aw that’s cute! I hope so. Haha.

Why do you dislike your ex?

[Jay-_-]

I dont dislike her I wish for nothing but the best for her, from a distance, she wasn't in love with me I realized and so I broke up with her, her morals were more of a persona and not her as a person, don't get me wrong she's a really good family person but Im just gonna label it as we weren't good together i guess, plus she moved on pretty fast into another relationship everyone knows what that means, I'm still happily single tho so no regrets here, my only regret is wasting precious time on that relationship but I wish her the best genuinely.

[LostandFound__x]

I don’t know what happened but I guess sometimes you don’t really know someone until you date them. At least you know now.

[Jay-_-]

Yea🙏🏼

[NathanDavis]

we're close friends, so... they would not do that

[BonzoInBitburg]

If she tried calling I would think she was probably drunk dialing. All my exes would text me, before they tried calling. It wouldn't mean anything to me

[Flatmanlewis]

There is too much information needed to form a reliable opinion. All the details are needed.

[TommyMountainFigure]

It depends on the reason you guys broke up. I honestly though would NEVER go back with an ex!

[DrPepper12]

Non existent with the possibility of sexy time? If you have no feelings or won't catch any go to town!

[KrakenAttackin]

Sounds like your ex has been run through and now wants you back. Don't.

[LiamJHayden]

None of my exes has been immature enough to block me.

[LostandFound__x]

I blocked him because it was the only way for me to move on. Out of sight out of mind.

[KostasKouvalis]

I would think she needs some favor from me

[LostandFound__x]

So you don’t think she wants to get back with you?

[KostasKouvalis]

I'd think she wants to get back with me because no one else wants her

[KostasKouvalis]

My cousin's wife actually did that to him. They were both desperate, her uncle tried to set them up. They talked and were in contact for a little bit. Then she disappeared for several months, then came back to my cousin after every other man her uncle tried to set her up with rejected her ass

[LostandFound__x]

Yes that happens

[swettannie]

what happened with him

[LostandFound__x]

We were in love but it was very toxic and it ended on bad terms two years ago.

[stvigor]

I don't know... r you alright

[LostandFound__x]

I’m okay thank you

[DreamLife7]

So basically you've been stalking someone who dumped you for two years. So far I think you're a psychopath who needs a restraining order placed on you is what I think.

[DreamLife7]

Update : he doesn't love nor like you. You're desperate, weird, insecure and unattractive

[LostandFound__x]

I was actually gonna elaborate but I’ve decided not to. I’ve already dealt with enough odd people for the day.

[Knightwatch27]

That's not her call to make.