What would your ex say about you?

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Would it be positive or negative?

I think my ex would say mostly positive things about me but if he had to be extremely truthful about what caused our breakup, he would definitely say the depression I had took a toll on him and the relationship.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Well about 10 years ago If she could have got away with murder and maybe she would have. That girl took me to hell any chance she got she was taking from me She had me arrested a few times all lies. But about ten years ago she called me up and say I had to come to cut my son because he was being mean to her

Since he was a little boy she told him lie after lie after lie about me. I asked her to stop because one day he will find out the truth and he was going to hate her for it

She wouldn't listen. He kept asking me what happen and I told him when he was 18 I would tell him. He begged me I said sorry I can't. I told him if he needed to know right now. I told him to ask his Grandparents is aunts and uncle's all on her side. They will tell you the truth he asked me why I wouldn't I told him you ask every one first And after you have asked everyone come to me and I will tell you he said please tell me I said I can't. The reason is because when you find out you will ask you mom she will call me a liar. And then I will pay some how for it that's why... sorry he said OK good I'm glad to are smart and didn't tell me.. Well e s to her family they told him the truth. AND HE Confronted her And just like I told him.
She started blaming me. Tell him that I was a liand he told her.
Grandma and grandma and grandma and grandpa told me his aunt and uncle's told him our friends told him and he was pissed So anyway I wouldn't pick him up that day that he Confronted her He was calling her name.
S and I told him he had to stop. I told him don't treat your mother like that.
I said come on let's go she's a fucking can't dad she said you beat her up and you didn't touch. Diane told me that cause Diane was in the house. I said yes, but I didn't know that until after I had to go to jail, he said she could've saved you gonna told them what happened. You didn't touch her and said I know and he called her a can't again He said, why aren't you p***** off dad? Why aren't you yelling and screaming? I said because that's not how you treat women. Dad, she took money from you. She took everything from you I said yes And I stayed very, very calm and I said come on, let's go.
Tell your mom you apologize and let's go So I gotta mount to my vehicle and let's talk to him all the way home And he wanted to know why I was not yelling and screaming at her. I said because that's not how you treat women.
I'm not going to do that. I've already dealt with this a long time ago I said if I was to yell and scream at her. What does that do? All that does is to teach you. It's o k to do that and it's not so stop. I don't want. To hear you say another bad word about your mom. Dad He tried to blame you for telling me everything just like you said what's going to happen? I said yep.

I said did you get the answers you wanted?
Now, do you know why I would not tell you? He said yes. Ok so now That was between me and her that was, I could have done a lot of things but I decidedo you were more important to me and I was teaching you you don't do what you did he said I would never do that he said I was doingbit for you because you were so calm no matter what she would say or do I did learn that but I'm mad she took your life I said it's over I've dealt with it you drop and you start living your life I said I don't know if you know this, but you're coming to live with me.
You're going to graduate high school?

I said I don't care how long it takes. But you're not leaving the house until you graduate. I don't care if you're 50. You're not leavuntil you graduate

Well you graduated Then went on to become a fireman paramedic his mother Divorce The guy that she was married to tried to invite me To come to her house when she was having parties. Oh hell No no no thank you But she has tried to being nice. So who knows, I would like to hope that she would tell the truth.
But there's no telling. My son told me that she still loved me.
I said that's great, but no, thank you. Other people that we know have said that she's changed and she doesn't talk or c*** about me anymore. So like I said, who knows? I don't really care what she would say. You guys for every lie. She has to pay for somehow The universe is karma And karma is God's silent policeman.
If you do something bad. God's secret police called karma do something about it

glennos89 · Accepted Answer

That's incredible honest you definitely have done some great self reflection love that❤️

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

My last ex didn't really get to know me that deep but I'm sure he wouldn't say anything bad since I was always nice to him. My other ex would say I am fine, since we still get along and are sort of friends since he is the only person I could call up and ask for $5000 and he would get it for me.

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

Mostly positive except he might be mad at me for breaking up with him for cheating on me

AviatorTom · Answer

We had a good 20-year marriage, some good times and some bad tomes, that ended amicably. We still get along, even though we are each remarried to other people.

14gurlz2gagonit · Answer

Pretty much the same shit here... my issues or situations were too much for them to deal with until I sorted them out, and it just wasn't going to work. Other relationships like side-chicks and shit like that were more organized so they might tell you I dicks down pretty good, eat pussy like a champ, and on the negative side maybe joke around too much or drinks too much just to deal with my insomnia... maybe even just wanting to be alone too much... hard to tell since I'm not really them and I'm just imagining what they probably think of me. The religious/leftoids/rightoids et cetera people might have some beef with me since I don't conform to people's dogmatic beliefs.

Overall I don't think you'd find too many negative things about me. I cook, I clean, I'm clean, I smell good, I lift wights and look good... but even with all that shit I don't match a lot of other people's energy. I'm a bit ghetto in the way I move and my speech. I don't put as much emphasis on money as most people. I get enough to be comfortable, but I'd prefer to live in a $200K luxury van than some mansion or play video games and talk shit on the internet instead of going around the world some more just for pictures and the stress of figuring out how to survive some more. I guess you could say some view me a frugal when I don't need to be.

My ex's can say what they want though... my ex's became past tense for me and I moved on. I had my particular bitchs and likes about each of them, but it doesn't matter now. All that matters to me is that I progressed and no longer make mistakes I used to make or had made. Some exes I wished I could have a second chance with and fuck that shit it's just not going to happen... I fucked up. I'll own it and move on and try my best not to be the worst of me again like that. It is what it is.

Zack-Bann · Answer

I’ve actually experienced a girl asking my ex about me after we started talking (my ex was her friend before I met either of them)
And surely enough my ex gave such a glowing review she practically seduced her for me

I was very proud that I’m leaving such a good impression even though the relationship failed

7Phoenix7 · Answer

When he is in his right mind, he tells people good things about me and our past. But his mental illness takes over and that's when I am "the monster."

by the way I'm glad you got through depression 🙂

BCRanger10 · Answer

My first one would probably say I'm a great guy who deserves all happiness and blessings I have in my life (and there are many 🙏).

The second one? She might say the same thing. Or not, I don't know. She had as many feelings and opinions on anything as there are grains of sand on the beach.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I have only dated some and can’t really say they’re my exes because we didn’t have sex and I didn’t get naked for them. For me to call him my ex, we should have French kissed or had sex. A few kisses here and there when I am fully clothed don’t count. That’s not my ex. I’m still a virgin so I can say I don’t really have an ex.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Probably positive. At least that is what I have heard through a few friends in common when they felt incline to share for whatever reason what this ex or that ex would express about me. Even the two who cheated apparently spoke well of me and lamented their having cheated. Grass isn’t always greener. Life goes on.

strateguy632 · Answer

Ex singular? Certainly not at my age.

*Som we argued , so probably would say about me unreasonable or stubborn. Most would say i was sweet but boring. I suspect exes told *theyr *frends good stuff, causing them to date me too.

sage2021 · Answer

If he was still alive he would say that I was the best thing that ever happened to him. He used to lay in bed just before we would go off to sleep and say ", I'm the luckiest man in the whole multiuniverse".(or Megaverse)

itsannalee · Answer

I don’t know, but 1 ex probably tell his new woman  “Actually she is nice, just too crazy”.

NordicInScandinavia · Answer

He's probably still furious that I picked a refugee over him.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Mostly positive but she'd say that I can be mentally and physically exhausting to be around.

exitseven · Answer

She would say that she never should have let me go.

Shiprex · Answer

That I was kind and supportive of her and that she made a mistake

Fireguy17 · Answer

positive. She knows she screwed up big time cheating on me and what she could have had vs what she ended up with in life.

alice55 · Answer

I have no ex so they wouldn't say anything xD

Nikki1989 · Answer

It would be all good. We still talk all the time.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Positive. No doubt. Maybe even wished it could have been more but life pulled us in different directions.

Jove79 · Answer

She would say I invest too much time into my hobbies and being alone, and I’m way too horny

ilistengood · Answer

Shed say I was a fag lol I am bi, butshe suddenly didn't care for that

Lilly1979 · Answer

My ex called me a B! tch. The I showed him one when I had enough.

Rohaan2020 · Answer

Well her friends used to hate me even when we were in a relationship… so i can guess what they were told or being told now as well

msc545 · Answer

Nothing good at all. She was and is the perpetual victim.

DianaV · Answer

Boy I really f**ked up. I didn't realize how good she was to me. All she wanted was a little time and conversation

Anonymous · Answer

She would say she's sorry and she misses me.

Godihateyou · Answer

I was rough. Strong and loyal. Still good friends but he was always to fucked up to marry.

MaximusGR · Answer

She would say I was a psychotic, gaslighting, p. o. s with trust issues 😃

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing, I don't have an ex, I was never in a relationship.

Emma06 · Answer

I couldn’t tell you my ex she say unflattering about me.

Agape93 · Answer

Save for one, it'd be positive

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Definitely negative

swettannie · Answer

he would say i broke his heart

Jennz6 · Answer

Negative I’m sure

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Probably bad stuff

Likes2drive · Answer

Probably mostly good things

nicfire171 · Answer

He’s a good guy just has some mommy issues 😂😂

Panthero80 · Answer

I would hope that I am a good guy.

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely negative I guess

4ngriffKitty36 · Answer

Dunno & don't care...

WhiteThought · Answer

No idea. Don't care.

dudeinohio · Answer

Probably positive

Robert1971 · Answer

Stubborn

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