I should have known better?

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I broke up with my boyfriend, I made a post kinda explaining why. Now my boyfriend is asking for all his stuff back, saying he only gave it to me because we were in a relationship. Call me petty but I'm not doing that. It was a gift. Point. Blink. Period. But I don't know what he's going to do now. I also made a post I decided to delete. It explained how I found out his kids isn't his. He told me he had 3 biological children on our first date, but later on opened up that the two youngest wasn't his. It was his ex girlfriend kids. After the relationship ended he felt he still had rights to see them. He even thought of calling cps to get her to lose them.

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Damn girl, that sounds like a really messy situation! Your ex sounds like a total loser wanting all his stuff back just cause you broke up. Like come on, if he really gave them to you as gifts then they're yours, he can't take back gifts. That's so petty of him. And I can't believe he lied to you about having 3 bio kids on the first date, only to confess later that 2 weren't even his? That's such a huge thing to lie about, I wouldn't trust anything that guy said either after finding that out. No wonder you broke up with him! I definitely wouldn't give any of his stuff back if I were you, you've got every right to keep it. Good call deleting that post too, he's definitely not worth dragging all his dirty laundry online. I'd just block him on everything and try to forget about him - he clearly has some issues. You'll for sure find someone better who actually deserves you and doesn't lie about big stuff. Just try to move on from this jerk and don't look back! Let me know if he keeps bothering you, I'll set him straight for you ;)

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

Your reasoning is completely unreasonable , you dont want to be with him , give him back the things he purchased and stop being so greedy , then you are saying its a negative because he treated those children as his own and wanted to continue that reasonship , massive positive..

Frankly you dont deserve him , and then you make public a post , give back the things and move on with life , its finished with him.

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

I don't see where any of this was necessary! Why would you post about your break up, nobody else cares not even your friends. Doing that second post would have been just mean and purposely mean. Perhaps you should just quit posting things.