I am in a relationship with a wonderful guy. It’s been about 2.5 years. The issue is we only see each other about once a month for two days. This is due to our work schedule. We Facetime every night, but it’s starting to feel like he’s a friend I want to call real quick rather than a boyfriend. He is so amazing, wonderful, and kind. I am sure I can get those feelings back if I really tried. But the distance and how long it’s been is really taking it’s toll. I’m so afraid that I’ll regret my decision if I do break it off. It’s at the point where he and I are happy to hang up if I want to watch a show or he wants to play video games. We aren’t familiar with each other’s friend circles anymore. We don’t really do things together anymore. But he’s so solid, even-keel, and good-natured. It just feels like it’s not a good point in our lives to be together.
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You cannot force anything the best thing you can do is BE HONEST open communication is KEY…. Tell him how you feel in a respectful way and maybe you can work through it maybe not.
I think you need to be honest with him maybe it’s not meant to be or maybe it is. But not telling him how you feel will make things a lot worse in the future.
LTRs or similar don't work. Breakup.
If you break up, you're a troll.