Abortion help please?

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I am currently 9 weeks pregnant. My ex said he would go half with me but every time it’s time for him to pay his half I don’t hear from him. I am currently in a state where it is banned so I have to go out of state. I could go half but I am not financially set to where I can cover full cost. I am currently working on living stability. What should I do? I get frustrated constantly asking him each week about helping me , he tells me a day then never shows.

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Dang, that seriously sucks about your ex not coming through like he said he would. Guys can be so annoying sometimes, always talking a big game but never following through. I know how stressful this must be for you with everything going on. It's a lot to deal with, especially alone.

Have you looked into any local women's centers or abortion funds that might be able to help cover costs or point you in the right direction? I'd try calling around to see what options there are as far as financial assistance. Some places even do payment plans so you don't have to come up with the full amount all at once. Also check online reviews of any clinics out of state to find one that seems trustworthy and affordable.

I know it's frustrating to have to travel, but going as soon as possible is important since it gets more expensive the further along you are. Keep bugging your ex too in case he finally coughs up something, but honestly wouldn't count on much from him at this point since he's already let you down. Just focus on you right now - you seem like you've got a good head on your shoulders and will figure this out.

It may seem really overwhelming but don't lose hope, okay? You've totally got this. Stay strong and let me know if there's any other way I can try to help or if you just need someone to vent to. I know everything will work out like it's supposed to. Just take things one step at a time and you'll get through this!

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

Tell him if he doesn't pay NOW , you are going to have the kid and hit him up for serious child support plus damages for the next 18 years ! To him - " Its NOW or never buster " open the wallet and let those moths out , this needs to be completed QUICK.

Avicenna · Answer

Can you get a loan for the other half?

slatyb · Answer

Stop asking him and seek aid elsewhere. You might start by contacting Planned Parenthood. Have you done a Google search?

Unit1 · Answer

There ya go. You ain't got no money to get an abortion. Now you're fully aware of the situation *you're* in.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, you’re both scum, arguing over halfsies money needed to kill your child. You could always hurl yourself off a bridge after delivering the child, then the person who deserves to live gets to live, you fuckin LOSER LOOOOOOOSER

LiamJHayden · Answer

Tell him never mind, you've decided to have the baby and he should be expecting a child support demand from the state. He will then be faced with 18 years of month support or helping you now.

Nikki1989 · Answer

What kind of shithole country doesn't have basic healthcare?

In_Trance · Answer

So get the money from them and then do it. If he doesn't pay then he's going to be a father and then he will pay

Ladsin2 · Answer

Why not put the kid up for adoption? Just a question.

Agape93 · Answer

Look for charities that help cover costs

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

OOOH SHOT THATS A PROBLEM

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