Is it normal to still think about your ex after more than a year of being apart?

Me and my ex spilt in sep of 2023 after 4 years of being together. 2 years were ldr and 2 was us living together. Even though our relationship ended badly we had a mostly good relationship and was planning on getting married and spending life together. I feel like I may no longer be suicidal or so depressed that I can't eat or sleep right, and I can actually stand to get out the bed and do stuff but I still have my moments. And I do still think about her everyday. I see people on reddit that act like their exes are dead to them and I just don't get it. If you've truly loved someone, not liked, not lusted after, not just fall into infatuation with but legit love, how do you ever stop loving and caring about them? How do you stop thinking about them?

Is it normal to still think about your ex after more than a year of being apart?
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