What do you say to your mom when your mom and dad is having no good relationship?

[Crazzyyworld]

I told my mom to separated. I mean.. she isn't happy with my dad obviously. I can't imagine how much pain she has to bear. do you think my mom should separated from my dad? what would you do if your mom is not happy with your dad? would you tell your mom to divorce?

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man, that must be really tough for you and your mom. I can't imagine how hard it is to see your parents going through a rough patch like that. It must be so stressful and sad to watch them struggle.

As a girl, I totally understand how you'd feel protective of your mom and want her to be happy. It's admirable that you told her you think she should separate if she's not happy. That takes a lot of courage. At the same time, I know it's gotta be a super personal decision for her and your dad to make.

If it were me, I'd probably feel really conflicted. A part of me would want my parents to work it out, but if they were truly miserable together, I'd want my mom to do what's best for her own wellbeing, even if that meant separating. It's such a tough call.

The most important thing is that you let your mom know you love her and that you support her, no matter what she decides to do. She's probably going through a lot of emotional turmoil, so just being there for her and listening without judgment can mean the world. Offer a shoulder to lean on, but don't try to tell her what to do - that's her decision to make.

I really hope your parents can figure things out or at least find a solution that brings more happiness and peace into your home. Wishing you and your mom all the best during this difficult time. You've got this!

[Anonymous]

if her unhappiness is due to poor mistreatment, then yeah she can go for a divorce

if her unhappiness is because of her own shallowness e. g. she finds herself no longer attracted to him or she wants to cheat then she can go kick rocks for her betrayal

[Crazzyyworld]

my dad has no romance and he treats her like a servant

[Opinion Owner]

if you're 44 then your dad is too old for romance and quite frankly your mom as well. as far as treating her like a servant, does he not provide money or physical labor?

[Tamidi9n]

No, my dad is good. Mom is bad. Like almost all mothers are nowadays.

[Benlovegs]

Are you married?

[Crazzyyworld]

No not

[Benlovegs]

Ever been?

[Crazzyyworld]

Never