What would you advice me?

[Anonymous]

My fiancé cheated on me after an 8-year relationship with another girl

He left me for her for no other reason

He now lives with her

She doesn't know what happened at all

This happened a year ago

I was trying to get over it and recover and I was in a lot of pain because I felt that I was wronged

But a month ago my father passed away

And I felt that I needed my ex-boyfriend and I sent him messages via WhatsApp and his response was that he couldn't repeat the same mistake twice

And if that girl wasn't in his life, he would have been by my side

By chance his girlfriend saw the conversations between us

And she sent me a harsh message and asked me not to contact him again

Because I ruin their relationship

I want to understand

Is life always unfair?

Who is the wronged one here

And am I a bad person because I needed someone who held me up with hope all those years

[AviatorTom]

It's been a year since he left you. That's more than enough time to get over him. Move on. Find another guy to have a relationship with.

I'm sorry to hear your father died. Take some time to grieve, and then think what he would want you to do. I'm betting it would be to move on with your life.

[Unit1]

"Is life always unfair?"

And you noticed just now? Wow. Your life must have been sweet until your separation.

Anyhow. You sound like you're still in a commitment with your cheating fiancé. By the time he cheated on you must be the signal for you, that he's not your friend. Move on. He has.

[BCA6010]

You shouldn't be reaching out to him, and she's right to be protective.

[Staximus]

Why would you message that bastard after he cheated on you? Why are you dragging yourself through the mud? Don't do that to yourself, now you just feel worse.

[Staximus]

Go to your friends and family for emotional support, you don't need some shit bag guy

[KrakenAttackin]

None of what you say or ask matters, you need to move on.

[AnonAndrew]

You were wronged when he cheated on you.

The other girl was wronged when you turned to your ex for support.

[HungTexan]

I’m guessing she is a better fuck than you are, or you’re too needy.

[Vegasrunner]

Yes you are the bad person for reaching out.

[Iron_Man]

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[Iron_Man]

Oops wrong question

[Crazzyyworld]

White girls are really really baaaadddd