I am in my first trimester just found out I got a job offer overseas (very hard to get good jobs here in my country with my particular degree). My boyfriend is not very understanding and he’s abusive at times (verbally & physically). Hit me once say he won’t ever do it again, verbally abusive more than once. I doubt I can go pregnant so now I don’t know what to do.
What would you advice me to do?
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I’d have to know your degree to find out what exactly I would do but something like this…
-either keep the baby or abort. You can keep the baby and put him on child support when you leave him later on for extra money.
-don’t break up yet unless the abuse is out of control. You have to get a job anywhere first and don’t tell him about what you have in your savings account. Save money for a down payment on an apartment or something like that for yourself plus extra money saved for other things. You have to be working at this point though.
Also at this point, if you kept the baby. You’d have extra money from child support and could apply for aid from the government to get you on your feet.
Career come first over dick...
Move on girl. Guys can wait. Career won't.